I can understand what the original poster said. Growing up in the truth you are taught to look down your nose at worldly people. Even "worldly" converts were to be mistrusted. I still have this kinda attitude 17 years after leaving. For some reason I bond with other ex jws a lot easier than I do with "worldly" people out here in the world. In fact my closest friends are ex-jws but they're not necessarily my best friends.. Strange. I wish I could change that behaviour.
Devilsnok
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The Reason ex-JWs Don't Communicate Well With Others
by StAnn ini've been giving this a lot of thought.
i'm thinking that, as a born-in, i was raised thinking that everybody who wasn't a dub was stupid and i had to go door-to-door to enlighten them.
and that the ones who were so stupid and stubborn as to not respond to my message (which was all of them, lol!
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You know your marriage is over when...
by mtsgrad inyou call an ambulance because you cannot breathe and your wife lets you pack your own case as you are rushed to accident and emergency.. .
any other clues?.
mtsgrad.
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You know your marrage is over when...
your partner posts on the internet for reasons why they shouldn't have an affair.
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I hope -Secrets of pedophilia add is gone soon to stop dirty looks at work
by Witness 007 ineverytime i check something here that god damn pop up comes up..."secrets of pedophilia.......{long pause} ......in an american religion.
" this has caused me many dirty looks at work and one woman reported me to my bosses who made me show them this website.."okay so your not a pedophile, that's great carry on, you silly witness man!
" embarrasing!
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Devilsnok
you are by far the dumbest poster ever at JWD
PMSL
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Give me a reason not to have an affair/one night stand
by mtsgrad ini am extremely close to having an affair.
let me give you some details.. been married for 8 years.
not had any relations for 7. faded 3 years ago.. in middle of getting divorced.
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I've done the dirty deed and believe me its not worth the guilt and the trouble.
If your marrage really is over, if you really are getting a divorce then you're a free spirit and I dont see a problem. However if this other woman is attached in anyway shape or form to anyone else, I'd run a mile.
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What kind of difference has JWD made in your life?
by JimmyPage ini feel fortunate that there is already a built-in online community i can go to where people can relate to having been a jw and where it's okay to express your true feelings about that.
i'm thinking it must have been much more difficult a decade ago.
so what kind of impact has this website had on your life?
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Devilsnok
I was pretty much over the teachings of the org when i found this place, so theres no need for me to take blue pills.
I came here looking for people like myself - and got burnt lol
I was kinda guilty of putting witnesses on pedestals and looking down on the worldly people around me out here in the real world. Coming here taught me one thing, witnesses can be just as bad and in many ways worse than worldly people.
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Golden Age editor gets voice box removed due to smoking!
by Witness 007 ingolden age 10/25 1933 p.57 "infeebled constitutions, inherited from fashionable mothers, cannot stand up under tobbaco...".
yes only weak, momma's boys,don't smoke!
good medical advice?
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G.A 2/10 1926 p.310 "Air baths are good for preventing colds...what you do is strip naked in the morning and bob up and down for awhile."
Its a shame I didn't know this when I was in the truth, it would have been excellent to show all those hypocondriac sisters that were always moaning about how ill they were.
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More Obama News - HE started 9/11
by Witness 007 inobama has been linked to the war on iraq and starting the 9/11 attacks!
you will notice his name obama and osama are almost the same...take the beard and turbin off bin ladin and......yes, it's barrack obama.
how can we elect a man president who has the same name as our worst enemy?
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Devilsnok
Witness said..
"oooh run away, run away!"
That was a bit camp!
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What kind of difference has JWD made in your life?
by JimmyPage ini feel fortunate that there is already a built-in online community i can go to where people can relate to having been a jw and where it's okay to express your true feelings about that.
i'm thinking it must have been much more difficult a decade ago.
so what kind of impact has this website had on your life?
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Devilsnok
What difference has JWD made to my life?
It made it a nightmare.
I came across an ex sister on here that needed help, so I got involved. Only she wasn’t just looking for answers to her troubled JW past she was also looking to find someone that would help her escape from her dead relationship with her partner.
I fell for it hook line and sinker. I fell in love with a player and boy did she play me. A year and a half later in order to save my own relationship and my sanity I had to leave London to get away from her. I had to change all my Email addresses, my phone numbers and removed any online profiles i had, so that she couldn't contact me. Because I was no longer living in London I could no longer care for my elderly grandmother, so she was put into a home where she died
As a result of getting involved with that sister, someone (either her or her pissed off bf) contacted my elders to tell them what a naughty boy i’d been since fading, which resulted in me being chased by elders from my old hall and me having to D.A before I was D.F’D
Had I not found JWD I’d still be living happily in London, I’d have all my old mates that I lost when I moved and my grandmother might still be alive. I’d have never had fallen in love with a player and never have had to have gone through the pain of losing her, over and over again.
If I could turn back time, I’d have never typed “Jehovah’s witnesses” into Google and found myself here.
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Where did you meet your lover/partner/husband/wife and..
by mtsgrad inwas it love at first sight?.
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mtsgrad.
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Devilsnok
At a dance club, i spent most of the night just looking over at her unable to break the ice. Then she came over and kissed me on the lips.
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roll call of good witnesses
by ninja inthey are stuck in a cult......but there are still good folks in there....name some you still have respect for.... .
billy paterson .
lee green
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Dave Ware
Chris Mitchell
Darren Gregory