I mean that the witnesses only love when it is convenant for them. My mother is a witness and as long as I was going to the meetings with her she would come in my room at night and tell me how much she loved me and how proud she was of me. Everything she did, she did for me. When I started having my own mind and going against the witnesses my mother started severly abusing me. She has even told me at times that she doesn't like me, but she has to love me. And now, when I try to talk to my mom the chit chat is low and she hasn't told me in years that she loves me. Huh, funny cause she tells Jo Ho girls my age that she loves them on a daily basis. One time mom even told me that she did love the witnesses more than she loved her own family. Very conditional. As long as momma is happy momma loves me, but make momma mad, and I am the devil. Also tell me how disfellowshiping isn't conditional love??? You are a witness one day chatting it up with all the others and taking trips with them and then the next when it comes out that you are disfellowshiped, not another word is spoken to you. Hell, it is even hard to get them to look at you after that!!!
Never leave the ones you love...but..Never love the ones that left. ;)
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