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  Breaking News: Anthony Morris III comments on Ireland legalization of gay marriage.

  by cappytan in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  #notsatire.

  thanks to wifibandit and pixel for collaborating on this.

  more to come.... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxce4duetw8.

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  LisaRose

  I am impressed, he managed to slam Gays, Irish people and his own wife in under thirty seconds.
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  Demon Stories

  by humblepotato in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so we all know that "crazy" brother or sister.

  every kingdom hall has one.

  they give the best comments (from a hilarious perspective), have experiences with the "demons", but most importantly, they are on about 10 deifferent kinds of medications.

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  I knew of a very odd brother that used to do a lot of street witnessing on his own, I guess no one would work with him. He was disfellowshipped, so I asked my dad why, he said because he heard voice, so they knew he was inviting demon attacks. I asked my father if he could just have been schizophrenic, he said no, it must be demons. This was a long time ago, but not so long they couldn't have know hearing voices was a sign of mental illness.

  I was also thinking about my daughter, who had mental issues as a teen, eventually she was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder (she's fine now though). If you didn't know her well you might think one of her meltdowns was a demon attack, she would go from normal to out of control meltdown very quickly, say very alarming things, cut herself, etc. It was really, really scary. I wonder how many JW teens with borderline personality disorder have parents who think they are demonized?
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  Series

  by Berengaria in

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  2. entertainment

  don't post much lately, but wondering what folks are watching.

  i'm enjoying the heck out of "penny dreadful", "outlander", and "grace and frankie".

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  I don't know if my taste changed or network shows got worse, but once you get used to more intelligent fare without commercials it's hard to go back. I used to like The Good Wife, but it's getting repetitive now. I never had premium channels, so I have to wait for things to come on Netflix. I just finished Mad Men before George Gently, I thought it was really good.
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  Series

  by Berengaria in

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  2. entertainment

  don't post much lately, but wondering what folks are watching.

  i'm enjoying the heck out of "penny dreadful", "outlander", and "grace and frankie".

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  He Beregaria, nice to see you checking in. I just finished the last Season of George Gently on Netflix. It's a BBC series about a police detective, it's set in the sixties and I thought it was very good. I have just started Dicte, a Danish series about a reporter, it even has a JW component, her JW parents hid her pregnancy as a young girl and forced her to give up the baby and still shun her 24 years later.

  Network TV is awful lately, we hardly watch it anymore.
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  Vacation Time: You want me to use my personal vacation to attend the D.C.? Something i feel is a load of B.S.and waste of my precious time

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  so you all know that my wife is still blinded....i am well awake and so are our son's.

  so she is expecting me to use my vacation time from work to attend the d.c. waste 3 days of dribble from the cult.

  what of waste of time....yet i will do it to keep the peace.

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  I was just thinking that no where in the bible does it say that we must go to x number of hours of meetings or days of conventions. Even the apostles didn't micromanage things to the extent the gb do. People had arguments and disputes and were allowed to speak their mind and disagree. Are the GB better than the apostles?

  I agree with 3rd gen, you have more power than you think.
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  Danish crime series begins with apparent shunning of a young mother, returning home after two decades

  by FatFreek 2005 in

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  2. entertainment

  i began watching a well-reviewed crime series -- dicte -- in streaming netflix last night.

  although it is compelling, the audio was in danish and was close-captioned into english.

  i didn't complete the first episode because watching cc is too laborious for me.

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  LisaRose

  I just stumbled across this on Netflix. I hadn't seen this thread, so it was a bit of a shock to see the shunning scene in front of the kingdom hall. It's not a bad show, I don't mind subtitles at all.
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  Breeding Ground for Sex offenders

  by enigma1863 in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  the watchtower would never claim that they want child molesters in their congregations.

  no 'respectable' organization would.

  that doesnt mean they are doing anything to prevent it though.

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  I doubt the Jehovah's Witnesses have a higher percentage of pedophiles than any other religion, at least to begin with, but they sure do make it easy for them to say and prey on children. Being a cult they probably have a higher number of people that are more naive and trusting than average. They also like to pretend the congregations are a "spiritual paradise", free from the problems of the world, so that tends to make their followers more trusting of others.

  Instead of one pastor or minister in a congregation, someone who has been trained in dealing with issues like this, they have several elders who attend a few weeks of bible training, little of it dealing with pedophilia and child abuse. These are difficult issues to deal with, no doubt there is a tendency to ignore red flags when it comes to this kind of thing, especially when elders are also under the delusion that such things rarely happen in "Jehovah's organization" With numerous elders and ministerial servants, it also makes it more likely the pedophile will be in a position of authority. It's a strict hierarchy, where elders have a great deal of authority and women and children are taught to obey.

  Even when it is acknowledged that abuse has happened there is a tendency to blame the victim, to think they somehow encouraged the behavior, or even to consider them as guilty, as if they were equally responsible. It's not unheard of for a minor to be disfellowshipped for immorality for having been abused by an older man. Then you have the infamous "two witness" rule, something that virtually guarantees pedophiles will not suffer any consequences if they don't admit to the behavior, at least the first time they are accused. Sex abuse is treated the same as any other sexual immorality, with no consideration given to the known statistics on sex abuse, that there is a high likelihood that a pedophile will reoffend. There is a sort of hubris involved, as they believe they are being guided by God's holy spirit, so they deceive themselves into thinking they will know if a person is truthful and whether they are repentant or not.

  There is also the headship principle, where women are expected to obey their husbands. Of course most women would not knowingly allow their children to be abused, but if a man is abusive to his wife and the elders have given her counsel many times to stay anyway, that obedience and victimization can become deeply ingrained, to the point that she either doesn't recognize the signs or even knowingly allows her children to be abused.

  Even when pedophiles are caught or admit the abuse, there seems to be is a tendency to let the pedophile off easily. If the person appears to be repentant they can be privately reproved, so no one else knows that there is a pedophile in their congregation. Even if the person is disfellowshipped, they can usually easily get reinstated after six months to a year. At that point they are treated no differently than any one else who has been reinstated, they are considered a member in good standing. People in the congregation are never told why they have been disfellowshipped, so remain in the dark.

  Despite their public assertions to the contrary, men can be and are appointed elders, even if it is known or suspected by the elder body that they have sexually abused children in the past. Many congregations have a hard time finding enough elders, so there is obviously a temptation to overlook or minimize past wrongdoing.

  Finally you have the Watchtower itself, the most guilty party in this equation. They follow a pattern of sweeping such problems under the rug, and sticking with policies that enable pedophiles. They prefer to quietly pay off victims in exchange for non disclosure agreements and when that doesn't work they will lie, delay and otherwise hinder any lawsuits. They believe they are God's sole channel of communication with mankind, so they no doubt justify this behavior as needed in order to not "bring reproach" on Jehovah's name. At the same time they have criticized other religions, especially the Catholics, for their own child abuse issues, all while pretending it rarely, if ever, happens to them.

  They were recently fined several million dollars for failing to provide discovery documentation and witnesses for a lawsuit, so it's obvious they have something to hide and are willing to pay to keep it hidden. This while telling their members they are financially challenged and asking for more donations. Most current Jehovah's Witnesses do not know they have a list of known or suspected pedophiles, rumored to be 56k in number, and they will do anything to keep the existence of that list unknown to the public and especially to their their members.

  
  

  
  
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  Another "damned if they do/don't" Thread & the Perpetual Motion Machine

  by DarioKehl in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  a few days ago, a jw apologist posted a thread with a similar title.

  although he was defending their behavior, i've observed this cycle as well.

  i have a different spin on it, though.. how often do you see posts from people who are upset that "no one even bothers to check in on me," only to read as many threads about "they keep calling & texting--why won't they leave me alone?

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  It might seem to be a contradiction, but it's really just two sides to the same coin.

  The culture of the JWs is one without social boundaries, so sometimes attempts to fade are met with an immediate inquisition. If someone just wanted to leave quietly that can feel very threatening and intrusive.

  It's also a culture of situational friendships, so it can be shocking when people who you thought were friends are willing to cut you off without even a conversation about it. It can and does feel very hurtful, as if they never valued you for yourself.

  It's also possible for both things to happen to the same person, the elders mounting an abusive and overbearing campaign to get you back, while friends drop you like a hot potato. I guess the ideal would be if people expressed concern, but backed off when the individual says they are fine, but it's a cult so that's not going to happen.

  
  

  
  
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  Intelligent design my ass

  by Doltologist in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  so man was made by god in his image was he?.

  so the human body was intelligently designed was it?.

  you are kidding me !!.

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  Why do we have redundant DNA? The coding is there, but it's not functional. In evolutionary terms it's an advantage, as some of it might be be useful at some point, but if we we designed to be perfect, why the junk DNA?
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  Demon Stories

  by humblepotato in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so we all know that "crazy" brother or sister.

  every kingdom hall has one.

  they give the best comments (from a hilarious perspective), have experiences with the "demons", but most importantly, they are on about 10 deifferent kinds of medications.

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  LisaRose

  People lie, exaggerate and pass off made up stories as real all the time. I believe the young man was mentally ill or took drugs, then had a meltdown and threw himself around. Obviously the brothers were scared and afraid of demons and jumped to conclusions. Elders usually know very little about mental illness

  I say proof or it didn't happen.

  And it does not take faith to not believe in God any more than it takes faith to not believe in the Easter Bunny.