Posts by okie46

broken heart.... a broken car in my houshold.. i have whole lot of holes in my life right now...and to top it all off...my insurance decided to mess up on a prescription and when i went in today to fix it, the doctor slapped me with a gift of diagnosing to me that i have bronchitis.

i never know i have it untill it is bad.

okie46

Sparky, I see someone who is full of love and cares for others and who is spending time reflecting on the past so as not to make the same mistakes again.

Keep you chin up, you are on the right track.
Love ya,
Okie

(changed my post, too hopped on pain pill right now, better rethink when I am at my best)

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How do you get over a crush?

by lonelysheep in

how do you tell your heart to not give a bleep anymore???

what can you do to shut it off completely, i mean, for more than a week?

eyes are hard to control sometimes, as are hands to type with.

okie46

As you probably know, easier said than done!! Some things that can help, stay busy, do things with your girlfriends, read books like, "He's just not that into you", "Women who love too much", "All men are jerks until proven otherwise", "10 stupid things women do to mess up their lives", "Why men love bitches" . Go to amazon.com and look up the above books and there will be tons of books on dating and getting through break ups.

Don't be afraid to cry and yes sometimes to heal we must hurt. What ever you do, put down that phone, when you are craving to call him, that is the worst thing to do, put down the phone and walk away, call a girlfiend, platonic male friend, family, your sister, anyone but don't call him, don't listen to sad music, don't get drunk or think of old memories with him. Get dressed in pretty clothes and go shopping and flirt with every cute guy you see.

Go to the Dr. Phil website or Oprah's websites and read everything you can find. Take a class, learn to knit, go dancing, take a drive, go to the library, go to a movie or a favorite restaurant (but not you and his favorite restaurant together), go to an adult toy store and buy something fun for self, watch movies you love.

Eventually you will think about your crush less and less and you will move on. There are more fish in the sea.

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Beard Question For The Girls Out Of JWD (Guys Can Answer Too)

by jayhawk1 in

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i told my wife i wanted to grow out my beard a little longer.

she said that was fine with her.

then i mentioned i was thinking of letting it get as long as zz top's beards.

okie46

I kind of like your KU Jayhawk pic, but you could post your pic as your beard grows to keep us updated. Just remember Jayhawk, if Mama ain't happy then nobody is happy!!1

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Beard Question For The Girls Out Of JWD (Guys Can Answer Too)

by jayhawk1 in

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i told my wife i wanted to grow out my beard a little longer.

she said that was fine with her.

then i mentioned i was thinking of letting it get as long as zz top's beards.

okie46

I looked at your pic and bet you could carrry the zz top look okay if that is what you and the wife like. Not my personal preference for beards but it is all about you baby.

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Entertaining yourself during the meetings

by Mysterious in

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what did you do to entertain yourself during the meetings?

i always had little games i played.

to this day i have a fascination with notebooks and write almost compulsively when something is wrong.

okie46

These are the things I did once, I didn't have little ones to take care of anymore:

I would write in my notebook and switch out pen colors, I love cool pens, especially fountain and felt tip.
I would watch everyone and smile at all the babies and little ones.
Play a game I made up where I try to figure out what kind of dog someone resembles.
Twirl my hair.
Daydream about men, usually ones at work, but sometimes I would look at the brothers and crotch watch.
Go to the bathroom and see if there was anyone there to talk to.
Read the bulletin board.
Look at the pathetic hair cuts and dye jobs the sisters had and think what I would do if I could get my hands on their hair.
Find something in the literature to read I thought was interesting.
Replay the days events at work in my head and try not to laugh when I remembered jokes I heard that day.

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Beard Question For The Girls Out Of JWD (Guys Can Answer Too)

by jayhawk1 in

jw
friends

i told my wife i wanted to grow out my beard a little longer.

she said that was fine with her.

then i mentioned i was thinking of letting it get as long as zz top's beards.

okie46

hey Jay, I am a beard lover myself, it holds a mans natural scent and can be very sexy when they are kept clean. Just think about certain situations though where you will want to make sure and um, well shampoo it good or you might go to work the next day smelling like your wife.

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What are you gonna be for Halloweeeeeeen!

by mkr32208 in

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i'm trying to come up with ideas for a halloween costume!

the kids have already decided.

my 4 yr old told my wife "don't let daddy be the cow this year, he was so silly..." so my cow costume from last year is out!.

okie46

Be "Bob" from "Bob, the guy with the huge smile on his face and raised eyebrows. You know, the guy from the "Little blue pill" commercial that has a new "spring in his attitude" and "respect in the neighborhood". You could wear a blue polyester suit pants pulled high, short sleeve dress shirt and cover up your eyebrows with makeup and paint new ones higher up so you look surprised. Then go around with a huge grin on your face wave and say to everyone "HI, I'm BOB"!!!