Oh yes.
One turned into a relationship, I was still in high school and he was married, 13 years my senior. I came to grips with the affect on me during the 90's when there was focus on these issues via the media, talk shows, Anita Hill etc. I pushed it way down for years, but i realize afterward it profoundly affected me and my relationships.
At one point I said we needed to talk to the brothers, and he agreed but we never did. I told several people including an elder friend many cities away. That was during the time when you could sort of self counsel. He told me to move on if I wasn't in love or seeking a relationship, which I wasn't. So I moved on.
I don't think it's unusual.