Interesting topic. Sooooo many questions these days. *sigh*
I have asked several people, how do they know for sure God cares for them. Most answers are from a personal experience.
Now I was one of those as well. When I left the org, I prayed like I had never prayed before, and I "felt" God's protection, care whatever. My problem is, I have a decent life, not many problems, good job, good friends and family. One could say I feel/felt blessed. BUT...what about everybody else?? This bothers me a lot.
There are thousands who die everyday, or who are in the midst of many trials...where is God for them? So as much as I want to believe he is a loving daddy that will not put his children in harms way, the majority of the world is in harms way. So is he (if he is there) a loving daddy?
I still haven't figured it out. One of my old agnostic friends who was FLOORED when I finally told him I had left the religion jokingly tells me he "prays withe the best of them, just in case ;)" CYA...even him.
Sorry for the vent.