Funny you bring this up, as my other half and I were discussing this very subject. I don't feel very "robbed" because when I hit the teen years I led quite the double life until I left home at almost 17 years of age. I was a very bad teen that make me scared to have my own teenager some day I think the hardest for me was in elementary school and standing out because of holidays, birthdays, national anthem etc.
My other half however, led a very clean cut jw childhood. Obeyed all the rules and was an example for all other teen jw's to follow. ( I do tease him occaisionally about this...saying that I never in a million years would have fallen in love with the microphone guy). Now he, on the other hand feels VERY robbed of life experiences, childhood experiences etc. and he gets really frustrated because it's not like we can turn back time to get these things back, so he often feels like he has run out of time for alot of things.
One thing that we have come to realize is that we have to live life for the now and not dwell on the past. It is a hard step when you feel so wronged in childhood, but as a survivor of physical and mental abuse, I have come to realize that I have never been healthier emotionally now that I have dropped that anger and frustration over things that have happened in the past. I realize that there is nothing that can be done to change that and sitting on that hurt and frustration makes one more succeptable to further hurt and frustration. There are many ways that I have found to deal with these emotions, myself, I find that writing and music have helped immensely, as well as giving me some good to come out of my childhood experiences.
Just my 2 cents I guess Hugs to all