Posts by Europe

Please explain how you have come to this conclusion about an entire group of people. But first, remember that a personal experience about how you were cheated by an elder in your hall will not cut it for a generalization for a group of 6 million. And also, please provide relevant proof...in other words, for them to be the "biggest bunch" these evil actions must be proven to be more consistent and evil than the average joe, otherwise they would be just as much liars, cheaters, fakers as the rest of us.

Tell me Amac, why are J.W.'s allowed to generalize everybody that is not a dub as an apostate and part of Satan's world?????

But as soon as people all have more or less the same experience with dubs, they are blamed for generalization????? Applying double standards as usual????

Disengaged is right, most J.W.'s keep up the appearance of being honest (the WTS demands that) but when it comes to money.....they just act like the rest of the world!

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WOULD A JW KILL IN THE NAME OF GOD???

by minimus in

jw
friends

i've heard different "apostates" say that witnesses are so brainwashed that they would kill, if ordered by the faithful slave.

do you believe this?

Europe

Amac:" They would lose just about every JW."

Dream on Amac!!!

J.W.'s eat everything the WTS puts on their plate, simply because they have been told for years that they otherwise will die from starvation.........

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WOULD A JW KILL IN THE NAME OF GOD???

by minimus in

jw
friends

i've heard different "apostates" say that witnesses are so brainwashed that they would kill, if ordered by the faithful slave.

do you believe this?

Europe

It would take years of conditioning to change them in this way.

Dont think so, just tell them about this new rule 3 times a week and tell them they will die at Armageddon if they dont follow the new rule.....If you are already brainwashed it doesnt take that much effort to add some things.

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WOULD A JW KILL IN THE NAME OF GOD???

by minimus in

jw
friends

i've heard different "apostates" say that witnesses are so brainwashed that they would kill, if ordered by the faithful slave.

do you believe this?

Europe

Yes, I think most of them will. They will do anything to be one of the 144.000!!!

When you shun your DF son/mother/daughter/father etc.you also 'kill' them although it's emotionally.

When you refuse your own kid a blood transfusion.....

Like in Malawi, people let themselves be killed for the organisation, so why not kill another person...

Mind you, there are plenty of people in this world who would kill for money so...

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Is it possible to fall out of love....and married?

by Lost Diamond in

i would like to know what your opinions are and i would really appreciate some input.. i have been re-married for two years, but along the way there has been some deep hurts, although no infidelity.

he claims that he loves me, but i do not feel the same way for him as i once did.

i was married to a verbally abusive husband for 11 yrs, and i'm wondering if maybe i just wasn't ready to remarry so soon, and the hurt my current husband has caused has rubbed some old wounds alittle too often.. he has done some emotionally hurtful things to me in which i don't really care to go further on right now, and this has caused me to distant myself from him.

Europe

No Scootergirl, it isnt, you can have a healthy selfishness!!

but I can't focus that far ahead, I keep my focus on today

So true Scootergirl! It would be nice though, but nothing lasts forever.......

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Is it possible to fall out of love....and married?

by Lost Diamond in

i would like to know what your opinions are and i would really appreciate some input.. i have been re-married for two years, but along the way there has been some deep hurts, although no infidelity.

he claims that he loves me, but i do not feel the same way for him as i once did.

i was married to a verbally abusive husband for 11 yrs, and i'm wondering if maybe i just wasn't ready to remarry so soon, and the hurt my current husband has caused has rubbed some old wounds alittle too often.. he has done some emotionally hurtful things to me in which i don't really care to go further on right now, and this has caused me to distant myself from him.

Europe

To Amac:

I think marriages deserve the best efforts of both parties.

Indeed, but if the best effort is just not good enough than dont stay married to make the other person happy and yourself unhappy! Like I said it has to come from both sides!

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Is it possible to fall out of love....and married?

by Lost Diamond in

i would like to know what your opinions are and i would really appreciate some input.. i have been re-married for two years, but along the way there has been some deep hurts, although no infidelity.

he claims that he loves me, but i do not feel the same way for him as i once did.

i was married to a verbally abusive husband for 11 yrs, and i'm wondering if maybe i just wasn't ready to remarry so soon, and the hurt my current husband has caused has rubbed some old wounds alittle too often.. he has done some emotionally hurtful things to me in which i don't really care to go further on right now, and this has caused me to distant myself from him.

Europe

Maybe I am selfish, but to stay to make someone else happy and me not happy just isn't my style. If I am not happy, I can not be a good partner.

To Scootergirl:

You are right, that's my humble opinion too!

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Is it possible to fall out of love....and married?

by Lost Diamond in

i would like to know what your opinions are and i would really appreciate some input.. i have been re-married for two years, but along the way there has been some deep hurts, although no infidelity.

he claims that he loves me, but i do not feel the same way for him as i once did.

i was married to a verbally abusive husband for 11 yrs, and i'm wondering if maybe i just wasn't ready to remarry so soon, and the hurt my current husband has caused has rubbed some old wounds alittle too often.. he has done some emotionally hurtful things to me in which i don't really care to go further on right now, and this has caused me to distant myself from him.

Europe

Mister Biggs,

Sorry but I think your situation is different from that of Lost Diamond!

I dont think your wife hurts you as Lost Diamonds husband is emotioanlly hurting her. And she has been there and done that already for 11 years!!!!!

You said : " Unfortunately, the flame has extinguished", so there still can be respect and love although on a different level.

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Is it possible to fall out of love....and married?

by Lost Diamond in

i would like to know what your opinions are and i would really appreciate some input.. i have been re-married for two years, but along the way there has been some deep hurts, although no infidelity.

he claims that he loves me, but i do not feel the same way for him as i once did.

i was married to a verbally abusive husband for 11 yrs, and i'm wondering if maybe i just wasn't ready to remarry so soon, and the hurt my current husband has caused has rubbed some old wounds alittle too often.. he has done some emotionally hurtful things to me in which i don't really care to go further on right now, and this has caused me to distant myself from him.

Europe

Lost Diamond,

Sorry to hear you dont feel happy anymore!

"He has done some emotionally hurtful things to me "

And he says he loves you?

Would you stay for the sake of his saying he loves you

Nope! Love and respect has to come from both sides!

and is sad over the thought of losing you

Perhaps that's the only thing he is worried about! Dunno!

I was told once: You have to love yourself first before you can love someone else!

If you are so unhappy, why stay in that marriage for the rest of your life. If you have tried to make it work and it doesnt....

and I'm wondering if maybe I just wasn't ready to remarry so soon

That can be very true. Your wounds were not healed yet, you just said it yourself.....

Good luck and take care!

Europe