There were three things really:
1. The way my husband treated me
2. The way the elders treated me
3. I felt I could not longer live to Jehovah's standards and by the jw rules and was not prepared to be miserable for the rest of my life trying
My disassociation letter was quite simple - it is pointless trying to reason with a brainwashed cult although I didn't know that at the time
Dear Sirs
I no longer wish to be considered at one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Please therefore amend your records.
Yours sincerely
solo
and off I toddled into a whole new world of freedom