solo - I think mine in pretty obviousy really
when I left the JWs I was 20 and I had to find my way in life totally alone, I had been working for the family company, living in a property owned by my family and the only people I knew were JWs, so I had to find a home, a job and a life and I literally had no one else for support or help.
Although it was terrifying and the end of the world to me at the time I has turned me into an incredibly strong, resourceful, independent person. I think I have done pretty well because everything I have achieved has been down to my own blood,sweat and tears.
If I lost everything today - friends, job, property, posessions I know I have the ability to go out and get it all back - and this time I would not be terrified, and I love that feeling and for that I am actually quite grateful to my parents in a bizarre way.
So that is why I am called solo
PS I'm not totally alone, I have a wonderful boyfried - but only because I want him not because I need him!!!