Posts by OnTheWayOut

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Need advice: Intimacy with my wife almost non existint because she considers me an apostate

by goingthruthemotions in

just on of the perks of being an apostate who is married to a branwashed, blinded jw woman.

you know, we have been married for ~27 years....most of which we had nothing to do with the piece of shite cult.

up till the begining of 2014 was when i woke up.

OnTheWayOut

what's the use of being married if this is lacking?

If that's your question, do you really need advice? I hate to go down the road of suggesting cheating or divorce, so I will just say that you seem to know what you need.

I am not quite in your situation, but I have a JW wife who misses me being a JW with her. We have occasions where something is wrong, but it really isn't like your situation. All I can say is that if you don't want to cheat or divorce, you need to change things at home. Marriage counseling is probably out. My JW wife would not go. But it really is the answer for whatever her problem is. After she won't go, a heart-to-heart conversation about cheating or divorcing because you know you won't stay in this situation indefinitely is about the only option left.

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The only way to know God exists!

by iconoclastic in

do everything as god would do if he were present here.

this will attract his attention, and you will experience his invisible hands blessing everything you do, giving you results more than what you sowed.. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------.

hence put to the test the above, and then you can make really authentic comments!.

OnTheWayOut

Do everything as God would do if He were present here.

If I were to murder entire large groups of people, I think it would be difficult and I would be put to death. I would rather do everything better than the God that most people are seeking would do.

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How does God view atheist and devotees?

by iconoclastic in

1) he views devotees with disgust; because they use god as a means to fulfillment of their materialistic ends, and they constantly pester him with request to violate his own laws (principle of action and consequence).

hence devotees are materialistic in its true sense.

they even interpolate things into scriptures to suit their convenienceas confirmed by prophet jeremiah himself (jeremiah 7:22; 8:8).

OnTheWayOut

As long as God is doing absolutely nothing about birth defects and natural disasters, and is too busy helping the faithful find their keys or get great parking spaces and obtain better careers while enhancing the abilities of athletes and artists, while children in Africa starve- as long as it is like that- who cares how God views us?

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Talkin' bout my generation

by FusionTheism in

instead of this latest video by governing body member david splane, attempting to explain the current view of what jesus meant about "this generation" in matthew 24:34, the governing body should, if they were truly wanting to put "truth" first, have simply said "this is one idea we have, but it may be wrong, and in all honesty, we aren't sure what jesus meant here.".

then, they could have gone on to give the different valid options for interpreting this passage.. instead they doubled-down on a confusing doctrine that can't really be supported by scripture.. there was no overlapping generation of 100+ years in the original 1st century fulfillment of jesus' words, so why would there be a 175-year overlapping generation in the antitypical modern fulfillment?.

while we are on the topic, why are they even still saying that matthew 24:34 has a typical and antitypical fulfillment, since they said we shouldn't interpret things now as types and antitypes unless the bible explicitly says so?.

OnTheWayOut

"My Generation"

People try to put it d-down (Talkin' 'bout the generation)
Just because it's changed around (Talkin' 'bout the generation)
I don't mean to sound awful c-c-cold (Talkin' 'bout the generation)
I hope it comes before I get old (Talkin' 'bout the generation)

This is the generation
Overlapping generation, baby

Why don't you all f-fade away (Talkin' 'bout the generation)
If you don't try to dig what we all s-s-say (Talkin' 'bout the generation)
I am trying to cause a big s-s-sensation (Talkin' 'bout the generation)
I'm just talkin' 'bout the g-g-g-generation (Talkin' 'bout the generation)

This is the generation
Overlapping generation, baby

Why don't you all f-fade away (Talkin' 'bout the generation)
If you don't try to dig what we all s-s-say (Talkin' 'bout the generation)
I am trying to cause a big s-s-sensation (Talkin' 'bout the generation)
I'm just talkin' 'bout the g-g-g-generation (Talkin' 'bout the generation)

This is the generation
Overlapping generation, baby

If you try to put it d-down (Talkin' 'bout the generation)
Just because it's changed around (Talkin' 'bout the generation)
I don't mean to sound awful c-c-cold (Talkin' 'bout the generation)
You should hope it don't come before you get old (Talkin' 'bout the generation)

This is the generation
Overlapping generation, baby

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BAD NEWS: We'll be dealing with Watchtower far into the future

by Zoos in

fortunately there will still be people waking up to the scam.. .

OnTheWayOut

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Watchtower Double Talk September 15, 2015

by LevelThePlayingField in

is this double talk or is it just me?

it's a comment in the sept 15, 2015 wt about higher education:.

11 today, we are blessed with much knowledge of jehovahs works of creation and the outworking of his purpose.

OnTheWayOut

It is a definite way to say "College is bad. Watchtower stuff is good."

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IF JEHOVAH WAS SO ALMIGHTY........

by brandnew in

jw
friends

wouldnt he, with all his "god power" n stuff.....be able to snap his "god fingers", and like kill the demon that he created?.

who creates a monster, that they cant control?.

i would have totally invented an "off" switch on all disobedient ones.

OnTheWayOut

I know the standard JW answer has to do with free will. Sure, the demons will eventually be destroyed, but only once it has been proven beyond all doubt that living Jehovah's way is the best way, otherwise men are only serving out of fear of God destroying them.

But that doesn't answer my concern. INNOCENT CHILDREN by the tens of thousands (perhaps more than 100 thousand) torn away from their parents in a tsunami in 2004 and being put through grave suffering and painful deaths in an earthquake in Haiti in 2010. If God is allowing suffering to teach us a lesson, isn't the price too high? Those children don't learn anything about God's love and the parents that lose them are not learning God's love. There is no excuse for not "snapping his fingers" and simply making that tsunami not exist or that earthquake not so severe. We could add the Japanese tsunami and past starvations in Ethiopia and endless events.

There are believers that can come up with answers for my concern and say that God didn't do it, but allowed it to demonstrate mankind's need of God. They say that God brings good things out of tragedy. God allows it so that humans can develop courage, devotion, loyalty, self-sacrifice, kindness, generosity, hope, trust. I don't accept that. The price is too high. If it weren't for children, I could almost let it be. But there you have it.

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I need some advice

by SpunkedTeen in

jw
friends

i dont think ill be able to leave the organization,you see i have no close friends in or outside the jws and my entire family is part of the cult,if i leave my mom and the rest of my family will be heartbroken and i dont want to be the reason they are hurt.

im not particularly close to any of my family members but i still care for them.

i could really use some advice because i have no one else to turn too..

OnTheWayOut

It is difficult, but I bet that deep down, you know you will have to find a way out of the Watchtower. As a teen, you need to take your time and figure this out carefully. But as a teen, you may think that years are an awfully long time.

At some point, you will have to face a loss. Try to make it a loss of JW friends and not JW family. Ditch the fake friends at some point and start developing real friends. Consider your career future to be way more important than your JW or former JW future and make goals.

You will figure it out.

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Humanism and Witnisam.

by The Rebel in

jw
friends

well it seems for many on this board the time came to leave the w.t and cross the bridge in to a real world.

speaking for myself l feel i did not enter the cold and lonely world i was lead to believe i was entering.

rather i have discovered it was no great loss leaving a world that had protected me with false, dreams, fantazy and false promises.. but what have i really achieved by my leaving that i value?.

OnTheWayOut

OnTheWayout:-
from your name you now sound well and truly out. Glad you got through " the rough period". Glad we both got out of what I now see as a dictatorship.

I could update my biography, my picture, even change my email associated with this forum. But I cannot change my name if I am to keep my account and all the posts with it. I would love to change my name to "Out" or something similar. OnTheWayOut was chosen when I was attending meetings. Others have chosen a name and then their situation changed.

If people can, they should consider counseling when they get out of the JW's. If they cannot, this forum can help a bit as a group therapy. Books can help also. Just talking to people is extremely helpful.

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Humanism and Witnisam.

by The Rebel in

jw
friends

well it seems for many on this board the time came to leave the w.t and cross the bridge in to a real world.

speaking for myself l feel i did not enter the cold and lonely world i was lead to believe i was entering.

rather i have discovered it was no great loss leaving a world that had protected me with false, dreams, fantazy and false promises.. but what have i really achieved by my leaving that i value?.

OnTheWayOut

There are plenty of good things in most experiences of leaving Watchtower behind.

I went through a rough period when I left. I was told by JW's when I was recruited that I had been seeking deeper truths about life, the universe, and everything. And of course, they had all the answers about an issue of universal sovereignty and why bad things happen to people due to Satan and the demons and YADDA YADDA YADDA. But as it turned out, I was asking a simple question, which was "Who am I?" That's what people really want to know.

Once I realized that, I was able to proceed with my recovery from Watchtower quite well and to pursue happiness.