Not sure if I ever want to be married again because I can't deal with "conditional" love. What happened to unconditional love? I'm beginning to believe there is no such thing.
I don't believe that it is love if it has to be earned ( conditional ) It is a gift. Love is as love does. It may or may not be accompanied with loving feelings. Hence one can love ones anemies. Does that make me a doormat No for I love myself. I enjoyed reading " The Road Less Travelled" by M Scott Peck for a working defination of what is or is not love. A heavier read is The Four Loves by C S Lewis