waving hands.....
I have been partaking for almost 15 years. A couple of those were at the Kingdom Hall, but because of my age (early thirties) short length of time being a Witness (only 15 years when I started partaking), I got so much flak from my 'loving brothers' I began partaking at home. I always thought that several thousand people observing the memorial together was ridiculous anyway, it is not comfortable for me.
Paul made it very clear. all Christians can avail themselves of heavenly promise. Jesus made it very clear...all Christians can avail themselves of teh heavenly hope.
And Watchtower made it very clear...all Christians can avail themselves of the heavenly hope. In the beginning when it was convenient for them.
You have to understand that the heavenly hope has been around for many centuries, and of course Watchtower is the one who came along and established the infernal two-class system.
When Jesus made the statement that "He who will not forsake mother, father, brother, sister, is not worthy of me" there is a growing concensus (and it is not new) that Jesus was referring to those who did not wish to part from their fleshly non-believing relatives. It is clear in this statement that there is a CHOICE for the heavenly hope or no.
Watchtower admits that many of their converts come from backgrounds where everyone has a heavenly hope, and these people wish to hang onto that hope. Watchtower snatches that hope away from them before they even fully convert.
I agree totally not just with Aguest but with many others on this board: the heavenly hope is there for ANYONE in an approved relationship with God. The earthly hope that Jesus referred to, and that the Hebrews held for thousands of years, is there for those that want THAT.
Our understanding of things may change over the years regarding either or neither hope. That is not what is importnat. It is the life we lead, and I have met many earthies, heavenlies, and atheists/pantheists/agnostics who lead good lives and the world is a better place with them in it.
Hope that helps.