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  How I lost my soul mate.

  by Abandoned in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i've shown this to a couple of friends, but i'm ready to widen that audience a bit.

  so, without further ado, here's my soul mate story.. i worked with amber and saw her a few times a week.

  when i first accepted a lead care position, she was the one who trained me in on med passing and from that first day i worked with her, i was so impressed by how kind and patient she was.

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  Schism

  Yeah, I try to get my husband to confront me all the time. He still loves to serve...
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  What do women REALLY want?

  by Abandoned in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok, i've heard it all: sincerity, honesty, security, money, love, romance, flowers, poems, promises, and more.

  but, in my arguably limited experience, i've been shot down while doing all of these (at differnt times obviously).

  so, what do women really want?

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  Why thank you, searching4truth I know I'm not the only girl who feels that way about men putting out well. I suffer from a severe lack of tact!
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  What do women REALLY want?

  by Abandoned in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok, i've heard it all: sincerity, honesty, security, money, love, romance, flowers, poems, promises, and more.

  but, in my arguably limited experience, i've been shot down while doing all of these (at differnt times obviously).

  so, what do women really want?

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  Schism

  Ah, I just read the other thread. Well, I frankly had no part in that conversation because I saw that it was generalizing before it even got started, lol.

  My first sentence in my reply to this one was "not all women want the same thing".
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  What do women REALLY want?

  by Abandoned in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok, i've heard it all: sincerity, honesty, security, money, love, romance, flowers, poems, promises, and more.

  but, in my arguably limited experience, i've been shot down while doing all of these (at differnt times obviously).

  so, what do women really want?

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  Schism

  But stinking won't get you a date either! Hah!

  You asked how many women wanted a man who smells good, and then one raised her hand and you shot her down. You did, after all, say that it was a good example of a woman who is a little specific. There ya go!

  Yeah, I agree, saying you like "nice" men isn't really describing what you like in a person. I just don't like the gender generalization.
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  What do women REALLY want?

  by Abandoned in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok, i've heard it all: sincerity, honesty, security, money, love, romance, flowers, poems, promises, and more.

  but, in my arguably limited experience, i've been shot down while doing all of these (at differnt times obviously).

  so, what do women really want?

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  Schism

  So Steph, are you saying that women generally like men who are mean?

  Because if you use logic, nice = not mean.

  Don't say women generally don't use logic. Logic is my middle name!! My other middle name is perv...
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  What do women REALLY want?

  by Abandoned in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok, i've heard it all: sincerity, honesty, security, money, love, romance, flowers, poems, promises, and more.

  but, in my arguably limited experience, i've been shot down while doing all of these (at differnt times obviously).

  so, what do women really want?

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  Schism

  Thanks looking glass, I'm glad I'm not the only chick who hates flowers!

  I have given it some thought, and I've come up with the things I personally like in a guy (besides sex).

  Funny is good, clingy is bad. Macho is horrid. Show-offs are gross. Guys who are smart and witty, awesome. Guys who check out the waitress, .

  A guy who can have the perfect balance of pervertedness is the best. A guy who acts sloppy and nasty is gross, but a guy who can hint around about what he'd like to do to me in the sack is so SEXY!! I mean, mentioning handcuffs on the first date with a sly smirk is beyond perfection.

  I am not too big on guys who like to tell me I am the greatest girl ever. How could anyone know that? It just sounds like sucking up. I'd rather a guy to keep that mushy stuff to himself.

  But like I said, not all women are the same. You gotta find a girl and read her personality before talking about handcuffs because you could terrify the poor thing!!!
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  Should I start posting dating tips?

  by Nosferatu in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  many of us came out of the jws with very little dating experience under our belts (married or not), and a lot of us were very lost when it came to the opposite sex.

  the wts didn't help us learn how to pick a woman, how to court her, or even how to have sex with her.

  there's a lot of horror stories about first jw sexual encounters, and a lot of horror stories about dating after leaving the org.. i made it a goal to catch up on my dating experience after i deprogrammed myself, and i learned a lot about the competitive and tricky dating world.

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  Schism

  LOL, don't you think that the women here might actually know more about how to impress women than any man-whore?? I mean, come on...we are the ones who decide whether your strategies actually sound appealing or not!

  Post away!
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  What do women REALLY want?

  by Abandoned in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok, i've heard it all: sincerity, honesty, security, money, love, romance, flowers, poems, promises, and more.

  but, in my arguably limited experience, i've been shot down while doing all of these (at differnt times obviously).

  so, what do women really want?

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  Schism

  Not all women want the same thing.

  The only thing I ever looked for in a guy was the ability to deliver great sex!!! Roses are such a turn-off to me. But then again, I am not every woman.

  Why do you ask this?
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  Post your favorite saying

  by Scully in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i was just pondering how the wts has, for over a century, been able to convince people to do what is contrary to their best interests with fear tactics that armageddon is coming soon, and i came up with what is going to be my pet phrase for a while:.

  "only religion has the power to compel people to embrace sheer stupidity in the name of faith.

  " ~ scully, december 28, 2006. i googled it, and didn't see that anyone else has claimed it, so until someone else finds an attribution for it, i'm claiming it as my own.

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  Schism

  "The Bible is an important relic of human history, just like Hitler". By Schism.

  I was probably drunk when I thought of it
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  Urgent!! I am biting my nails!

  by Schism in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  you guys, help me out here please!.

  if you read my post about my dad, you understand why i am a bit nervous.

  he is calling now.

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  Schism

  He will be mad no matter how I say it.

  This one feels right to me, so I'm going with it.