When I was a young man the witnesses tried to snare me with some nice sister. I was smart enough to stay THE HELL AWAY from them. I will be celebrating 26 years of marriage this year married to a worldly girl.
This girl is only a 5 now on Richter scale as a witness, just wait till she has a kid then things will change. Do what you want because you will anyway. Marriage can be tough at times but having this religion in your life is something you don't need. There are plenty of fish in the sea.