I think it was the Memorial I went to in '86 (held in of all places Aurora [CO] North High School) that was co-led by one of those "annointed" folks...he actually tried to be a little discreet about partaking right there on the stage....moved off to the side and held his head down low as he sipped and eat the bread....
then there was this "remnant" brother who had severe MS...had a lot of people's sympathy...i wonder if he's dead yet? but nobody questioned his claim to being "annointed". but this one sister who was "born in the truth" and claimed to be "annointed" seemed to be questioned by quite a few behind her back....sexism perhaps?
the "stock" answer I heard often when I was growing up: "It's like being a boy or a girl. You don't need to ask yourself which sex you are...you just know."
I guess they've never heard of transgendered people....
the dustrabbit