Well, abr, it's different strokes for different folks. You should ask your wife what turns her on. Then do that, but also look for romantic things to surprise her. Bring her some little special gift gift you know she will enjoy occasionally. It could be something you buy, or something you find such as picking a flower. Give her a foot rub or massage. Send her a romantic or a funny card and write your own message in it. It can be a sweet message or it can be a funny message, maybe a private joke between the two of you. Tell her how much you appreciate her and what she means to you. Make her feel appreciated. That is a real turn-on to me. I think things done can be more attractive than how you look. But don't discount a pair of overalls with no shirt on underneath on a hot summer day.
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Question for the Ladies?
by avidbiblereader inwhat do you find physically sexy or hot on a man?
i need this info for my wife's sake, as she doesn't think 6 pack abs are that sexy.. .
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Question for the Ladies?
by avidbiblereader inwhat do you find physically sexy or hot on a man?
i need this info for my wife's sake, as she doesn't think 6 pack abs are that sexy.. .
abr.
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mimimimi
I think it is physically sexy and hot when my husband gets up after dinner and washes dishes. Of course, I guess that's just me.
But I also think it is sexy and hot when he wears overalls, or coordinates his ballcap and shirt, coat, or vest. I am also attracted to the ways he stands and walks. He has good posture, stands tall, carries his head high, and walks with confidence. He just exudes the aura of a successful and powerful man, which he is in his own sphere.
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Fictional Teaching of Slave Class/RF
by compound complex inin search of christian freedom.
the faithful and discreet slave.
masking over reality - for what purpose?.
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mimimimi
Sorry this is off topic. What does bttt mean?
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Abducted boy found and that's not all!
by Snoozy inthey were acting on a tip and raided an apartment in kirkwood missouri..not only did they find the white truck..and the boy..they found a boy that was abducted almost 5 years ago.both seemed to be in good condition.. both boys lived in rural parts of missouri also.. that just doesn't happen!
can you imagine..the parents of the first one abducted had started the fingerprint children system a while back.. i bet their parents are so happy..i am... they will tell us more later..this is going to be very interesting!.
just thought i would share..good things don't seem to happen very often in these kind of cases.. snoozy....
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The guy who had them is named Michael Devlin. It's on MSN breaking news. I am so glad they were found. I know Shawn Hornbeck's family must have given him up for dead a long time ago.
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Amber alert issued in St Louis Missouri..
by Snoozy inanother amber alert has been issued...so many sickos out there..so sad.. this time a 13 year old boy.. snoozy..it breaks my heart to know what these kids will have to go through... http://www.ksdk.com.
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I've been seeing this on the news. I hope he is found safe and sound, but unfortunately probably not too much chance of that. There are sure a lot of sickos out there.
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Did being an elder jepordize your own family?
by avidbiblereader indo you think being an elder jepordized your own family or do you know of elders who burnt themselves out at the expense of the congregation and let their own families go to the way side?
do you have experiences that this laboring for the congregation has ruined families?.
i tried to be balanced but to do it all, i remember getting up at 2:30 am before work to work on parts so to have time with my daughter but i feel that i took time that was and should have been devoted to my family that had to be put into the congregation for any reason.
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mimimimi
Just look at how many elders have to step down because of problems in their family and that will give you your answer. Of course, the other side of that coin is the elders who did not step down, but made their children move out of the family home so they could continue to be elders.
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Special Talk on Saturday @ 3PM?
by Morocco ini was talking to a friend and he said the co (i think) was coming down this saturday for some special talk at 3 pm.
i don't ever recall special talks on a saturday, or as late as 3 pm -- what could it be?
unless i misunderstood that it was the co, maybe it was someone else.
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Several years ago there was a Bethel speaker here for the Memorial. Both of the congregations in town rented space at the local community college for it so they would have room to attend together. Afterward, everyone was saying it was the best Memorial talk they had ever heard and I was thinking "What???" I was not particularly impressed at all and did not think it was anything special.
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Special Talk on Saturday @ 3PM?
by Morocco ini was talking to a friend and he said the co (i think) was coming down this saturday for some special talk at 3 pm.
i don't ever recall special talks on a saturday, or as late as 3 pm -- what could it be?
unless i misunderstood that it was the co, maybe it was someone else.
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They sometimes have the pioneer meeting during the CO's visit on Saturday afternoon, don't they? Or is it a weekday afternoon?
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Jesus Camp, the Movie ... Camp shut down!!!
by kwintestal ini posted about the movie back in september here.. well, i just found out that they have decided to shut the camp down for at least a few years due to the movie.
i guess god wasn't as happy with their camp as they thought.
here's the link to the article: http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/nationworld/2003365311_jesuscamp08.html.
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mimimimi
Good, they ought to be shut down. I found the film clip from that movie very disturbing. Talk about brainwashing!
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ITHINKISEE Update: My fleshly JW sister says I am Satanic and dangerous
by ithinkisee ini went to my dad's house for christmas.
it was the first christmas we celebrated together since i was 5 years old.
it was my kid's and [freedomloverr's] very first christmas ever.. .
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mimimimi
It has been my observation many, many times that JW's cut people off emotionally. So much is expected of everyone and there is only so much of one to go around. Regardless of what they say about being the only religion that shows love, very little of it is ever shown, but they are full of judgmentalness and gossip. I could relate to how you felt after the conversation, shaking all over. It is such a shame that they cannot see how unreasonable they are. Hang in there and love and appreciate the rest of your family who are not J-dubs.