Posts by SWolf

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Been in an longdistance relationship with a married woman

by SWolf in

i have a situation that i need help with....2 1/2 yrs ago i met a woman online she is 20 yrs older then me 41 now as i am 23...i fell in love with her and i never have been in a long relationship.

i know she is married but very unhappy...we been having a long distance affair for 2 1/2 years and i love her more then anything in this world...i have made her very happy and just the other day she feels trapped knowing she will be destroyed...i did not know what jw's were so i have been going to learn so i could understand her.

i need help scriptures anything that i can use to help her leave her mentally abusive husband.

SWolf

nothing is Fishy i did not want to let her go but all the things i tried to do just bounced off and no matter what i did she would not listen...so what else could i do....look this hurts me more then you think

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Been in an longdistance relationship with a married woman

by SWolf in

i have a situation that i need help with....2 1/2 yrs ago i met a woman online she is 20 yrs older then me 41 now as i am 23...i fell in love with her and i never have been in a long relationship.

i know she is married but very unhappy...we been having a long distance affair for 2 1/2 years and i love her more then anything in this world...i have made her very happy and just the other day she feels trapped knowing she will be destroyed...i did not know what jw's were so i have been going to learn so i could understand her.

i need help scriptures anything that i can use to help her leave her mentally abusive husband.

SWolf

TY guys...yes i have been with her spent a whole week and a half with her...now what io'm about to say is i am crazed up in the head i am best friends with her husband...he is an elder that is why this whole thing got started i met her 1st and then proceeded to end it...after i have starting to feel bad....but during one of my visits i saw her upset and as she had said "no one cares Joe...23 yrs in marriage and no one cares about what i say and think or my feelings...this is my life and i guess i will just learn to live it like Jehova has aked me" Keep in mind he is an elder and she tried to help thir marriage but all they told her was to compensate and be more of a submissive wife she told me. Now to make things i worst im now friends with her entire family and her kids are 21 just got married, 20, and 18...yes i am deep but everyone else gave up on her long ago...2 weeks ago i went fishing with her husband..with the other elders...she came along and she was bringing a beer to him well she tripped and spilled the beer on him" I just smiled cause it was funny..he threw his pole down and yelled "Damnit you stupid Whore"....Well the other elders were not nearby of course..but it boiled my blood people...i'm a big guy and if i really wanted to end this marriage i could by just kicking his butt and taking her..now i know thats just cruel thinking...but i never ever want to make her feel regrets so i'm giving her time....right now its great because with my mom out of her job i'm supporting her school and mortgage...so right now this gives her time to relax and think about it...untill yesterday...but thx to Blondie's section on the Article.....we have overcame this and i'm hoping shes see the control...because she never interrupted me aor defended the watchtower so maybe i opened her eyes a lil. I know i should run get the hell out and believe me a year ago i would have....but i can't explain it evertime we try to walk away one of us calls in the morning....and says i can't and we learn to work it out...now i know its still my option...but i love her too much and i know i could never be friends with her if we ended it like a quoue a learn..."painful thing the heart will ever go through..i sitting next to a person everyday you love and want and knowing you cannot have her" As one person said on here leave her and move on thats what will happen....i would drop off the face of the earth from her family, and friends. Why don't i you ask...because i know her better then her own husband..and i know that she would end up going dowhill, her husband asking where is Joe and putting 2 and 2 together he would break her and she would confess...so she would lose everything....and i will not do that...i been through worst people with her and i tell you now i will not give up on her...and just keep an open mind if you were in my shoes and in this deep....maybe you all could see my reason too....have faith my grandad told me certain situations no matter how bad will soon come a purpose that will support your happiness....well i rather try everything then live wondering if i only did this or that. Ty again guys for your posts Joe

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Been in an longdistance relationship with a married woman

by SWolf in

i have a situation that i need help with....2 1/2 yrs ago i met a woman online she is 20 yrs older then me 41 now as i am 23...i fell in love with her and i never have been in a long relationship.

i know she is married but very unhappy...we been having a long distance affair for 2 1/2 years and i love her more then anything in this world...i have made her very happy and just the other day she feels trapped knowing she will be destroyed...i did not know what jw's were so i have been going to learn so i could understand her.

i need help scriptures anything that i can use to help her leave her mentally abusive husband.

SWolf

i have a situation that i need help with....2 1/2 yrs ago i met a woman online she is 20 yrs older then me 41 now as i am 23...i fell in love with her and i never have been in a long relationship. I know she is married but very unhappy...we been having a long distance affair for 2 1/2 years and i love her more then anything in this world...i have made her very happy and just the other day she feels trapped knowing she will be destroyed...i did not know what JW's were so i have been going to learn so i could understand her. I need help scriptures anything that i can use to help her leave her mentally abusive husband. please...shes been so upset lately and i don't know what to do she wants to be with me but is afraid of losing her everlasting life....i need guidance and understanding to help her i appreciate any advice you can give me.....today has been hell for me due to a watchtower article and it is throwing everything away we have worked so hard on.....the latest thing she knows she will be destroyed and she has been so mentally abused that she does not know if she can make me happy....I have tried evrything....i know that i must be hitting you people real hard and i tell you this we have been together but no sex..due to i respect her and will wait till shes ready....i just want to give her hope guys and gals...i may be young but shes the one i want and i would do anything for her..so far shes still with me but i know that i need to show her she can divorce him and be with me....and before anybody shuns me know that i tried to help their marriage but thats what got me into this....i don't want anyone to tell me i'm wrong or make crude comments if thats the case do not post...i want everyone to have an open mind and to give me advice...i'm not backing away or running i just need to show her that God will love her shes a good woman people and this will be her 1st sin...and i know once this is over with she will continue being faithful to God...please anybody just help me to talk to her using scriptures or giving me advice on how to do this...thank you Joe