Posts by evetteto

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Don't Quite Know What To Make of This

by XJW4EVR in

i had my kids last weekend, and they seemed hapy, and content.

i called a couple of times earlier this week as usual, to see how they are doing, and got the answering machine.

no mystery there.

A Moment Of Reflection?....

by Justice-One in

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it has now been almost three months since i completely cut off my association with "the brothers," and told my wife that i did not want to be there when the "kool-aid" came out.

(remember i had been in full fade mode for over ten years.

) at first i got the cold shoulder from the wife for about a month, then things slowly returned to normal.

After reading your post, it reminded me of how I see my husband seemingly so unhappy...starts an argument everytime he has to go to fellowship with the dubs...and how he can never find anything nice to say abt people in general...I always ask him can you say something nice? After sitting here hours upon hours reading to the point where I'm actually hearing everyones pain, my heart burdens for all the Jdubs even the ex's. He sees me always in a happy state, always smiling, talking to people and they reciprocate...I know for a fact it burns him with jealousy...but 1 day and it wont be long he will Rejoice with me!!! Keep your head up...pray that the scales will be removed from your wife's eyes! Look forward to seeing her happy...and I hpoe I'm not imposing on this website for I see we all have the jdubs incommon....................evette

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Is your avatar you?

by Swamboozled in

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i always assume that people with real pics for their avatars are pics of that poster.

obviously that's not always the case.

i'm curious about whose pic is really them.

evetteto

Its really me...I take a picture every year on my birthday...but Mother's Say wkend this year I cut my hair of to support my Mom who had Breast Cancer...now I'm almost dreading taking a Hairless Picture. I hv 10 more days to decide if I'll wear a wig or NOT....which is a definite NOT!!

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I Don't Believe in God, or wait, Maybe I Do. . . a little wisdom please?

by Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit in

i am conflicted as to whether i can or even want to believe in god.

(using capital g out of respect) i can't separate love of god and my jw life.

i pioneered for 10+ years, and thank goodness for that, because i can now easily memorize anything and read upside down.

evetteto

Ok... i understand how the dubs can turn anyone off from God being His love is (according to the JW's) conditional. However, having a personal relationship with Jesus you will begin to know the True God and His Love for you I strongly suggest reading the Word in a bible other then the NWT. Romans 8 is a very good chapter to study and understand the Love God has for you. Dont allow the evil of the borg(which I really dont know what the letters stand for...HELP) deter you from the Creator, whom you were made for fellowship with...He has apparently removed the scales from your eyes for a purpose...you are currently in your Damascus Road experience...Take Heart.....evette

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Where is the Love

by evetteto in

ugh...i dont know how to really start this,,,but i'm a christian and my husband was b4 our split in p1...however he returned home 3yrs ago on 12/17.

however he returned a jw wannabee, actually he studies with them he hasnt been baptized in the org...its so funny how i am picking up alot of the lingo here ev'1 uses...lol....anyway, i can see where his love is so conditional and i hv to remind him that god loves us "unconditionally".

i continue to give him the true word of god!!

evetteto

ugh...I dont know how to really start this,,,but I'm a Christian and my husband was b4 our split in p1...however he returned home 3yrs ago on 12/17. However he returned a JW wannabee, actually he studies with them he hasnt been baptized in the org...its so funny how I am picking up alot of the lingo here ev'1 uses...lol....anyway, I can see where his love is so conditional and I hv to remind him that God loves us "unconditionally". I continue to give him the TRUE word of God!! I know that God will bring him out of the dubs but my patience with him and his condeming accusations are dwindling,,,any suggestions on what I can say to him or not say?

evette

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It's Saturday and

by sspo in

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.

evetteto

....the children and I are having a Bake/Yard sale to raise monies for toys to send to children in other countries. Hope we have a wonderful and properous day....and you have the very same

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What state are you from?

by Junction-Guy in

this is for the us crowd, what state do you live in?

or from?----i live in tennessee, but from ohio and kentucky.

evetteto

lol....killifornia...not funny.

California here..and loving it!!

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"Have a blessed day" - How does that make you feel?

by wanderlustguy in

i just returned a customer's phone call and heard that on the voice mail.

every now and then these come along, and i experience a few emotions or thoughts.

my thoughts and experiences, and yes i know everyone isn't like this and there are a lot of great, humble, christ serving people here and out there...this isn't directed at you:.

evetteto

GO TROJANS!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111111

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Did leaving the borg ruin your marriage

by Billzfan23 in

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has anyone else here left the borg and had it go over like a lead ballon, ruining their marriage?

mine is quickly heading that way.

i have been married for about a decade, and have a couple of kids - both in grade school.

evetteto

TO ALL THE MARRIED PEOPLE STRUGGLING WITH THEIR SPOUSES IN A CULT, PLEASE CHK OUT THE WEBSITE WWW.REJOICEMINISTRIES.ORG AND MAY YOU FIND THE PEACE YOU NEED REGARDING YOUR CURRENT SITUATION IN THE LORD.

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Kingdom of God is Hiring

by moomanchu in

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help me give a reply to the one that is taunting me.

i'm tired of getting these stupid e-mails from jw's.. i was thinking of adding a punch line to each one of the qualifications.

i'll then send it back for their enjoyment.. the kingdom of god is hiring!

evetteto

GOOD ONE