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  Can anyone give me advice?

  by Palsnpets in

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  hi all my problems are complex, so here goes.

  my 36yr old husband after ten yrs of marriage (abusive), left me for a 19yr old girl.

  thats fine with me, i'm way over it and have a wonderful new man.

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  Palsnpets

  Hi all My problems are complex, so here goes. My 36yr old husband after ten yrs of marriage (abusive), left me for a 19yr old girl. Thats fine with me, I'm way over it and have a wonderful new man. The problem is the girl was a JW and now he has joined the church. He is also Bi-polar, a control freak and obsessive. He has the children one night a fortnight and half of the school holidays. He takes them to church, etc. The kids are 9,7 and 5. I am not religous at all and either was my ex at the time. It has been nearly two yrs since he left and the kids have forgotten the abuse that we suffered. They now think he is the most wonderful guy in the world, they also won't stop talking about church, JW, etc. I also found out through conversations with the children that because the girl was a JW and slit up our marriage she is not allowed to talk to anyone else from the church, when she goes to church she can only enter after everyone else, she must lower her head and not speak. She must also leave first without being seen and sit in the car until my ex has finished talking, this could be hours later. I fear that this whole thing will leave my children with a slanted view on life, they may fall vicim to the church and think that people should be treated this way. Please help me as I don't know how to deal with this issue. If anyone can give me some insite, ideas, etc. Thanks Andy
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  How can I help my kids?

  by Palsnpets in

  1. social
  2. family

  my problems a complex one.

  my 36 yr old husband after ten years of marriage (abusive), left me for a 19 yr old girl.. i am not religous at all and either was my ex at the time.

  thats fine with me, i'm way over it and have a new man who is wonderful.

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  Palsnpets

  Hi all,

  My problems a complex one. My 36 yr old husband after ten years of marriage (abusive), left me for a 19 yr old girl.

  I am not religous at all and either was my ex at the time.

  Thats fine with me, I'm way over it and have a new man who is wonderful. The problem is the girl was a JW and now he has joined the church. He is also Bi-polar. He has the kids one night a fortnight and half school holidays. He takes the kids to church, etc. The kids are 9,7 and 5.

  It has been nearly two yrs since he left and they have all forgotting the abuse we suffered. They now think he is the most wonderful guy in the world, they keep talking about church, etc.

  I also found out through conversations with the children that because the girl split up my marriage she is not allowed to talk to anyone else from the church, when she goes to church she can only enter last, she must lower her head and must leave without being seen before the service is over. She is to sit in the car until my ex is ready to leave.

  I fear that this whole thing will leave my children with a slanted view on life, they may fall vicim to the church and think that this is how people are to be treated.

  Please help me I don't know how to deal with this issue. If anyone has any compents that may help it would be welcome.

  Thanks.