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  Why do you support having sex out of marriage?

  by free2beme in

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  i work with a lot of people who are very sexually active.

  which should mean they are real happy, right?

  after all, isn't sex the best feeling in the world and that is why we have such a strong internal sex drive.

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  There is no guarantee that a person will be with you and only you forever and ever if you are a virgin when you marry that person!! Being a virgin does not guarantee that the person who takes your virginity will love you forever.

  I was once told by a friend (male) that he wanted to marry a virgin because "her vagina would fit him perfectly", not be stretched, WTF????

  Vagina's don't become mishaped because you have sex, if that was the case no man could satisfy his mate after childbirth. This of course was a JW male - stupid.

  Anyway, back on topic - IMO - to have or not have sex is a personal choice. I would not buy a car without test driving it, why would I marry someone before I knew if he could satisfy me in bed, or if he had bad habits that I didn't want to deal with for the rest of my life! Second, 1st time sex for a female is very painful and I would not want to spend my honeymoon with a painful vagina!!!!! I also would not want to have sex with a male virgin, I would want someone to know what the hell he's doing!!!

  Sex does not make a relationship last or end, it does not define you as a person. As long as you are having safe sex (if not in a committed relationship) go for it! and enjoy.

  nj
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  Will there be any competitive sports in the new system?

  by JH in

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  since everyone will be young and in top shape, i wonder what sports will be permited, and will competition be permitted?.

  the williams sisters play competitive tennis, and that seems to be ok, but on the other hand, some young jw's aren,t allowed to play competitive sports at school..... .

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  There is no "NEW SYSTEM", be happy!!!

  n j
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  End of life

  by Phil in

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  i have recently been diagnosed with lukemia with a limited life left in the old bod.

  my daughter is a jw and was lured into the institution by her then boyfriend (now husband).

  my present intention is to prepare some idea of what she has got herself into.

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  ((((((((((((((Phil))))))))))))))

  I'm soooo sorry to hear that!!!

  If you'd like I can send you a PM with my story, not sure how much of an impact it would be, but anything I can do count me in. Do you at least have a relationship with your daughter???? Are you able to see or talk to her??

  I feel so bad, now is the time you really need your family especially your children and spouse (if there is one). Sending you hugs and positive thoughts

  nj
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  Crises of Conscience

  by ex-nj-jw in

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  2. experiences

  i just finished the book by ray franz, coc, and for some reason i'm madder than ever at this organization!!!

  i've been out for over 20 years and now i'm even more pissed off!!!!

  why am i so angry at things i already knew although i'm sure i've just repressed them over the years and got on with my life, anyone else have this anger problem after reading this book, or is it just me??.

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  BB - LOL thanks, I needed a laugh, a little uptight today

  What-a-coincidence - I'll try Awaken, Thanks for the tip!

  Drew - exactly, I'm angry at the GB and WBT$ I thought the same thing, praying giving serious consideration prior to making decisions, HA!

  The Monster - Thanks, whew thought I never get out!!!

  War - HaHa, I thought you were leaving???

  CoolerKing - it's on my reading list!!!

  Thanks guys, this is a great place to vent!!!, usually you get a good laugh after you've vented
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  Crises of Conscience

  by ex-nj-jw in

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  i just finished the book by ray franz, coc, and for some reason i'm madder than ever at this organization!!!

  i've been out for over 20 years and now i'm even more pissed off!!!!

  why am i so angry at things i already knew although i'm sure i've just repressed them over the years and got on with my life, anyone else have this anger problem after reading this book, or is it just me??.

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  misanna,

  I would never scream at you

  nj
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  Crises of Conscience

  by ex-nj-jw in

  1. jw
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  i just finished the book by ray franz, coc, and for some reason i'm madder than ever at this organization!!!

  i've been out for over 20 years and now i'm even more pissed off!!!!

  why am i so angry at things i already knew although i'm sure i've just repressed them over the years and got on with my life, anyone else have this anger problem after reading this book, or is it just me??.

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  Get over it already! Just kidding.

  LOL at was!!!

  You are right, I should get over it!!! It's just so stupid to hear active JW's repeating the party line of "their just imperfect humans" that makes me want to smack the shite out of them!!!!

  nj
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  PEANUT BUTTER DISPROVES EVOLUTION!! (Or, does it?)

  by Terry in

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  http://richarddawkins.net/print.php?id=798&showcomments=yes.

  this is not a parody!

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  God sure put a lot of thought into designing that banana!!!

  nj
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  Can one man be an Island? Bumping into old workmates - awkward

  by needproof in

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  i like to consider myself a bit of an island.

  some might call what i do anti-social.

  as an island, i have to face inescapable facts - those being that sometimes, i must travel to the mainland.

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  Weird? Nah, just being you that's all.

  Everyone has their own personality and it's no one else's place to say that he/she is weird. I think people should let other people be who they are.

  I hate it when you see and old friend, that you no longer have a close relationship with, person has not even called you to say hi, what's up and when they bump into you, they want a hug and huge greeting!!

  That really burns my arse!!!

  nj
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  The beginning of the rest of my life...

  by truthsetsonefree in

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  so i sent in my letter of disassociation.

  this is my first day not being a jw.

  there is an unexpected feeling of exhilaration.

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  Free at last, free at last, thank god almighty TSOF is free at last!!!!

  I don't believe in god, but i thought it was fitting!

  nj
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  Crises of Conscience

  by ex-nj-jw in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i just finished the book by ray franz, coc, and for some reason i'm madder than ever at this organization!!!

  i've been out for over 20 years and now i'm even more pissed off!!!!

  why am i so angry at things i already knew although i'm sure i've just repressed them over the years and got on with my life, anyone else have this anger problem after reading this book, or is it just me??.

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  ex-nj-jw

  I just finished the book by Ray Franz, CoC, and for some reason I'm madder than ever at this organization!!!

  I've been out for over 20 years and now I'm even more pissed off!!!! Why am I so angry at things I already knew although I'm sure I've just repressed them over the years and got on with my life, anyone else have this anger problem after reading this book, or is it just me??

  Also, any suggestions on what I should read next?? Maybe I shouldn't read anymore, I damn near tore my friends head off this morning (he's still a JW, but I think he's starting to have doubts)????

  Any suggestions welcome - even if it's to tell me to get over it already!!! Sometimes a good kick in the arse is what I need

  nj