Hi, Welcome to the board.
It's not often that I have the patience to read a long post all the way through, but your thread read well and in parts was quite humorous. Counting on the fingers of one hand with most fingers missing was classic.
The Society can be a real pain in the ass, can't it? Once it becomes a part of you, it will spread like a virus towards other people you know - soon enough, everybody is contaminated which leaves the leaving process extremely difficult.
Having a kid in the situation makes it tons worse.
The Witnesses claim to be a loving bunch of people, but in reality, they are a nasty bunch of gossipers. When I left, after about ten months, I watched from the window as they tried to call me (they only attempted a couple of times) and then, since they thought I was not in, I heard them congregate outside and gossip about my business. I mean, it was really obvious. You should have seen their faces when I slammed the window shut.
There isn't a lot of advice that I could give you in this situation. I am so pleased you have discovered the truth about the WT and have read CoC. You have more power over this situation and these people than you may think. As a former Dub, you have the ability to know what they are thinking and about to say before they actually say it. You have been there, you know how their brains work (or not). Use this skill to your advantage.
The kid is still young; you can turn her to the good side still. Do it subtly, dropping doubts into conversations. WT mind control goes a long way, but it can be broken, we can all testify to that.
I hope it works out for you, I really do.