I don't understand the whole disfellowshipping procedure, I thought I did at one time but now I don't
I was DF'd for leaving my wife and taking someone else as my wife so I am in an adulterous marriage. That is a prime example of an action that requires dfing.
However it has been 3 years, I have written 3 - 4 letters. It takes them 3 - 6 months to get back to me. One week after our last meeting which was 2.5 months ago I asked for another meeting with them and they said yes. But no matter how many times I ask them they say they are going to meet with me but they drag it out for months and months.
Isn't my life important to them or to Jehovah?
At first I saw the DFing procedure as something that would make me correct my way of thinking and turn around. I have been regularly attending the meetings for 3 years and its been so long that I am bitter and have a broken spirit...
Has anyone else had a similar experience or has reinstatement been a cut and dry thing? I just feel like I'm being jerked around