Unique,
Im sure you are a very attractive woman- go find a single man! My point is that if you want to be with this man- WAIT until he is divorced. A friend of mine was in the same situation as you until magicly- he went back to his wife! Ooops! Then she was depressed for 6 months and hated the world.
You are setting yourself up to get hurt REALLY bad. If he loves you like he says he does, then he cant wait till he gets a divorce.