first kid: emergency c section..the cord was wrapped around his neck and his heart rate was dropping...this after hours of labor....oh it sucked afterwards
2nd kid: v-bac or vaginal after c section...oh the humanity!!! They wouldn't let me have an epidural...oh the pain...oh the tearing...and oh the lovely post delivery seizure I had while the doctor was trying to stich up my tear...but it was still easier to recover than the csection. I did get some lovely valium to help with the seizure...good stuff...
last kid...another v-bac...was allowed epidural this time....oh my god...I would love to have an epidural today. Good stuff...I recommend ithighly...was a good recovery.
My other two kids...my husband's ex was kind enough to have them for me. Thank god, because one of them was 10lbs
When I left NH, I was told that my hospital would no longer allow vbacs...and in many parts of the country the hospitals won't...it is an insurance thing...stupid, stupid.
Vaginal with epidural...and vodka...best way to go (k, I didn't get the vodka, but would it have killed them??)
Off all the methods of delivery, though...I highly recommend having someone else carrying the kid and giving birth for you. Makes things so much easier.