Xena - another judgement!
Your suggestion is that what I suggest is none existent!
Maybe some know it!
I'm not alluding to myself here!
I truly perceive that some have lived the reality I speak of!
How I come across is void of any desire for pity! And I suspect that to be true of ones I speak of.
Maybe that is why they exhibit a reluctance - fear of pity?
A lovely 'belief' to ponder!
It is liberating for many!
I hate to sound defeatist but reality is sometimes much starker - a silent warzone - someone snipping at you repeatedly!
Sadly your dream only works amongst like minded souls!
A plesnt distraction so thanks for sharing.
to me not all bad taught me some good life skills howerever 38 years i could have done alot with that time...............karter
fifi40,
much as everyone here would love to take the pathway you suggest, reality has stolen it from them!
I know your force for action, but for many the actions are repeatedly demoralising till - here they are!
Xena - your inuendo is what would put me off suchlike individuals!
The notion that because you don't already have circles of friends it's because you are not 'open'
So where natural frienship occurs it's absent such notions!
Preconceived notions are what perpetuate negative realities! Both sides of the equation!
It's why some give up completely - and with good reason - so fulfilling your 'open' claims as to why they deserve their reality! A joke really!
i'm thinking mid 20's to mid 30's..........although i had a hell of a 15.......................oompa
I have to concentrate to come up with these because they are not naturally born of memory!
You know the ones you love to speak about!!
Since you say years it can only be infancy = no question!
mine was men at work's "business as usual".
on vinyl.
and my dad read all the lyrics on the sleeve to make sure it wasn't too evil.
Blondie parallel lines !
That was it for a couple of years till I got an Elvis collection one Christmas!
I still hadn't played each LP before several were deeply sartched after next sis sneaked them to a party of hers whilst I worked nights!
And she still denied it weeks later!
Great to have solidarity!
My reality perspective on the elusivity of a true friend:
I am an individual who loves to communicate with the 'inner person' but due dads death I lost a soulbond and the reverse became a reality through monther ( who made that an impossibile reality in the home) and then WT lifestyles decades ( that kinda thinking was off limits!). The nearest became gran who had lots of 'old notions' about what is spoken and what is not so guesswork was high on the agenda again.
So fast forward to the last few years:
Doing that now has become a misnoma! Everyone is a mirage and evaporates whenever you approach their reality!
So to me a true friend is one with a sincere, active and compassionate interest in ones welfare, lifestyle and general pathway through life whose wish is to share their reality with you!
So there is no onus on either party except how they choose to look out for each other and predominnatly to inform and communicate to each other in ways which are always 'on the level', 'on the lookout' and 'looking for opportunity'.
So all my life I have been looking for an opportunity to engage suchlike ones but to zero avail!
I must be mistaken! Based on my reality - very much so!
I'm wondering what my life feeling has evolved into - in fact what it has been for years!
I think some people become satellite individuals not of their choosing!
Life events! Whatever? I could talk for hours with any person anytime anyplace - but they misread me or don't wish to!
The last Mohecan! And you feel it in your blood! You're kindred are dead or driven abroad by social difference!
It is peculiar!
i just spotted this and thought:.
mmmmmmmmmmmmm = sounds like many a jw experience of a permanent life trance!.
sorta an overpowering feeling that no matter if you won the lottery, it's no big deal !.
Sometimes they are confused for being past the point where you worry any longer what others think about behaving 'as expected'!
trees have been iscovered as old as 8,000 years old in west sweden.. these are norway spruces..
Scandanavia appears amazing!
I would like to go there sometime!
