Not meaning to be pedantic Toesup however ,
" we are avoided like the plague .They tried contacting us a few times and then gave up ."....?
All in the same sentence ,one thought contradicts the other..Which is it ?
"They avoided you like the plague ", or "They tried contacting us a few times and then gave up "
Aside from that I`m glad for you and your spouse , life is better for both of you and your kids.
Sorry if I `m being a little picky .I do appreciate your posts.