Then those poor kids , yet to go through the teenage years are going to make mistakes that will define the rest of their life .
Make a mistake and they will and be hailed before a JC ,reprimanded ,ostracised .shunned ,for simply growing up and learning by their mistakes that normal kids go through as they are growing up.
It really amounts to child abuse when they have this threat over their heads that if they stuff up they will be DF and shunned from everybody in the congregation including their friends and family.
Freedom of religion should never endorse this concept and I dont believe the founding Fathers of America ever envisioned this concept.