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  Does parents recover?

  by Manjana in

  1. watchtower
  2. medical

  i am sitting here watching a video from youtube.

  about children who have died, because their parent refused to give them blood.

  it's awfull.. but what i am thinking about, does anybody know what become of any of those parents?

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  Manjana

  Dear Missana

  It does'nt matter, you don't take any discussion about the blood matter away. Not many are responding anyway as you can see. :)

  I think it's very important, that you have someone to write to about this. Have you thougth about contacting Silent lamb? I promise you, Bill Bowen is a very nice man. Or try to go to their home page, and write in their guestbook. Many people there have tried the same as you. Maluenda ex. have been abused herself, and she is so carring and a loving woman. That you feel that you are surrounded with love, while you are at the site.

  Yes I know it's tuff for you right now. And I know about nightmares, I have been told before. And I understand that you are angry, and thats good. Its so okay to be angry. Try and feel the anger, yell at your molester, write down all about what you are thinking, it help. Tell him, out in the blue air, that you just dont want him to do such things to you. I know it sounds crazy, but it will help.

  But you need to talk to somebody, it also will help a lot.

  My girlfriends does have a life, but sometimes it all comes back to them and they go down. But they have got a lot of psycological help. (Hope its spelled right). They are fighting and all the advises I just wrote, is the experiences they have told me, through time.

  Missana write to me, as often as you like, I am here for you. And think deeply about what I wrote, talk to Silent lamb. They have experience since 1992. Many ex-witnesses have phoned and talked to Bill Bowen and he have helped them a lot.

  I hope so much that you recover totally. I will pray for you.

  Sincerely Manjana
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  Does parents recover?

  by Manjana in

  1. watchtower
  2. medical

  i am sitting here watching a video from youtube.

  about children who have died, because their parent refused to give them blood.

  it's awfull.. but what i am thinking about, does anybody know what become of any of those parents?

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  Manjana

  Dear Missana

  I am so sorry to hear about you abuse. I have never been abused, but my mother has and to of my very best girlfriends have been abused by their father and 3 more elders, from the same congregation, when they were litle girls. And they are still fighting, trying to get at normal live. They did go to the police and the elders. But they lost the case and are today disfellowshipped. Their father are still a witness an elder of good standing. He even was allowed to lead the congregation in a pray, right after it was known. Poor old man, everybody say's. He also did abuse my girlfriends children.

  My girlfriends could not remember what has happend, until for about 6 years ago. Here in Denmark there are a law, saying that after 20 years, (as I remember) the case is to old. But one of the sisters got pregnant by her father, when she was about 13-14, and when the litle girl was born, she was killed right after, by her father. It's simply so horryfeing, that it's difficult to understand. The police looked for the baby, digged all the land up, around the farm, but did'nt find it, so because of missing evidence, the case is now closed. It was hell, to go through for my girlfriends. The police believed them, but the elders did'nt. And in every congregation all ower in Denmark, they was pointed out as liars. So not only are they victims but also not believed in, and everybody accuses them to be liars.

  It just can't be Jehovahs true organisation. It just can't.

  My advise to you, try and contact Bill Bowen. He is absolutely a caring and a kind man who has been helping many victims. I am sure, that after a good long talk with him, you feel better. You are offcourse still more than welcome to write to me.

  And thank you so much, for all the nice words about me. That was so kind of you. :)

  It is important, that you starts to clean up inside of you. Have you talked to you doctor about it? He or she can help you to find the right help/person who can help you with that.

  I hope really hope you find a way, to come ower it completely. I will pray for you.

  Love from Manjana
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  Does parents recover?

  by Manjana in

  1. watchtower
  2. medical

  i am sitting here watching a video from youtube.

  about children who have died, because their parent refused to give them blood.

  it's awfull.. but what i am thinking about, does anybody know what become of any of those parents?

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  Manjana

  Hi Missana

  Thank you for sharing this information. It's what I thought, poor mother. I know many are thinking that the parents are horrible, because they can do such things. But we know, that they must have had a very strong believe. It's so terrifying, that a religion can cause these tragical cases. And I am so afraid, that if armagedon dos not come, many of those parent's would'nt be able to live with them selfes afterwards.

  I just wish, that I knew for sure, 100 % sure, if armagedon is comming. It still scares me, even if I have found out, so much about the JW, that is so wrong according to the bible.

  You write, that you have a very twisted past, that has left you in need of mental health. I feel so sorry for you. Have you got any help?

  I belong to a new started group in Denmark. You can find it under yahoo groups. You can chose to read the answers in english. The name are zofuzgruppe.jv. We have just started, but I sure hope that we can reach all the ex-witnesses who still suffer. Mostly ofcourse, it will be here in our part of the world. You have a great help, in Silent lambs here in USA, but you are also welcome to join our group. There already are a american ex-witness.

  If I can do anything for you, please let me know, and I will try to do everything I can. You are also welcome, to write to me in private or mailing to me, just tell me, and I will send my mail. adr. in private.

  Sincerely Manjana
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  Does parents recover?

  by Manjana in

  1. watchtower
  2. medical

  i am sitting here watching a video from youtube.

  about children who have died, because their parent refused to give them blood.

  it's awfull.. but what i am thinking about, does anybody know what become of any of those parents?

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  Manjana

  Hi everyone

  I am sitting here watching a video from youtube. About children who have died, because their parent refused to give them blood. It's awfull.

  But what I am thinking about, does anybody know what become of any of those parents? How are they doing? Does anybody know any parents who refused to let their child have a bloodtransfusion?

  To me it's very imortant, because I am colleting informations about how are the witnesses psycological doing? Also in this question. It could be interesting to know.

  It just hit me, while I was watching the video.

  Manjana
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  WHAT HAS BEEN WORST BAD NEWS RECENTLY FOR THE WT?

  by badboy in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  following on rom my toppic`has bad news increased for wt?

  ', what do you hink has been worst item of news recently for wt?

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  Manjana

  And that they lost a case in court against the Danish Magazine Ekstra Bladet. Hip hip hurray to the Magazine. LOL
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  New group in Denmark

  by Manjana in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i just wants to inform you, that we have started af new group in denmark.

  i know the web-page are in danish, but i write here also, because iff someone from denmark, norway or sweden, read this are they more than welcome to join the group.

  but only if they are x-witnesses or truly wants to leave the witnesses.

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  Manjana

  I can see that there are something wrong with the link. But when you come to the page, where there is standing that group not found, you shall click under groups, and then you will see Brians piture and the page in the left curner on the top.

  Hope to see you at our page.

  Manjana
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  New group in Denmark

  by Manjana in

  1. jw
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  i just wants to inform you, that we have started af new group in denmark.

  i know the web-page are in danish, but i write here also, because iff someone from denmark, norway or sweden, read this are they more than welcome to join the group.

  but only if they are x-witnesses or truly wants to leave the witnesses.

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  Manjana

  Jamen så prøver jeg lige igen. Jeg kan nemlig ikke kopiere den fra adresse linien. Så jeg må skrive den af. Men det gør jeg så igen. Træls da.

  http://groups.yahoo.com/group/zofusgruppejv/

  Så håber jeg det virker, ellers må jeg jo lige have fat i moderator. :)

  Manjana
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  New group in Denmark

  by Manjana in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i just wants to inform you, that we have started af new group in denmark.

  i know the web-page are in danish, but i write here also, because iff someone from denmark, norway or sweden, read this are they more than welcome to join the group.

  but only if they are x-witnesses or truly wants to leave the witnesses.

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  Manjana

  Hi everybody

  I just wants to inform you, that we have started af new group in Denmark. I know the web-page are in danish, but I write here also, because iff someone from Denmark, Norway or Sweden, read this are they more than welcome to join the group. But only if they are x-witnesses or truly wants to leave the witnesses. You can join us and still be anonymus. Safety and caring, are 2 words that we wants everybody to know, excist in our group.

  Its our perpuse to help everybody who have a need or just wants to talk. If anyone here in USA who are x-witnesses or wants to come out from the witnesses, you can chose a language and join us anyway. You will be welcome.

  Sincerely Manjana

  http://groups.yahoo.com/group./zofuzgruppejv/
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  If the Watchtower ceased to exist right now, what would this mean for you?

  by JH in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  what would it change in your life right now if the watchtower fell apart and didn't exist anymore?.

  maybe some would want to join another realigion right away, because they still believed a bit of what they preached and didn't want to join a false religion, just as the jw's brand all other religions..... .

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  Hi

  I would be so happy. That means that my fear for armagedon would disappear completely. Me and my husbond and girlfriends agree, that we shall have champagne, and celebrate for days. And me and many others could start to live and breath.

  Manjana
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  Has the witnesses stopped going out and preach?

  by Manjana in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  does anybody know if the witnesses has stopped going from door to door and walking up and down the streets with their magazines?.

  because we hardly dos'nt see them anymore here in denmark.

  so i just wondered.. manjana.

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  Manjana

  Hi

  Thank you. I just wondered. It is a long time ago I have seen them, and know from others, that they also wonders. But they are very quiet. Thats strange.

  But thanks for your answer.

  Manjana