well from my experience an abuser usually have more than one victim. Take my brother for instance he abused my sister before me but moved on to me when she got older. i think that it has to do with the age. but i also don't think an abuser is just happy with one victim. I'm so sorry for what you did and still are going through. i'm still trying to cope. hang in there.
Missanna
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Am I being dumb?
by bluebell ini really and truly believe that my father did not abuse either of my two younger sisters, just me.
my one sister was abused by my brother, which makes me think he was abused so as to act like that.. i left the jw's after finding he could get responsibilities again and because i realised that i would always be viewed as bad association no matter how hard i tried because i just didn't fit in.. i never wanted to take it any further than the congregation because i did not want to rip my family apart.. but if i had a child i would not let him alone with them.. can someone just abuse one victim (maybe two if my bro was abused as i think he was)?
or do they always abuse more?.
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another puff topic
by bigdreaux inif you could meet poster from here, who would you most like to meet?.
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Missanna
I want to meet everyone!!! tee hee we should definately do something for Holloween. i've been wanting wear some of those costumes and go downtown. GOOD TIMES!!!
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Sad News Orangefatcat's husband died this morning.
by orangefatcat inthis is one of the sadest days in my life, my beloved husband marco passed away this morning at 5:15 am.. it has been a dreadful day.
but my dear friend was with most of the day while we went togerther to make funeral arrangements.. that was really hard on me.
i have done nothing but cry and cry all day, i finally fell asleep a few hours ago while my friend diane was here and she let me sleep.
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Missanna
I can't imagine what you are going through,
I am so sorry for your loss.
Hang in there sweetie
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Isn't Jehovah a wonderful God?
by nvrgnbk inwhen i look around at all the people in the world, i'm comforted to know that jehovah will soon destroy them.. i'm talking about people that don't attend our encouraging christian meetings.
yes, people that don't zealously participate in the preaching of the good news.
'what good news?
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Missanna
Bro. Nvr I have to confess i've been missing some meetings lately due to work. I don't want to be destroyed by our loving god. what should I do? How shall i repent for my wrong doings? I have also been talking to ... worldly people outside of work... is this a sure fact i will be destroyed? Can we discuss this after the meeting Sunday?
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sister-in-law
by bigdreaux inwell, for some reason, my sister in law- a faithful dub googled me and tracked me to this site.
i don't know if she is lurking on here, but, if she is, i'd like everyone to give her a hello, and a big, warm welcome.
so, hi becky!!!!!!
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Missanna
lol it cracks me up how nosey people are. i can't believe my sister did that. but whatever. now they know and now feel even more free. and babe, you are too sweet! lol sorry just had to throw that in there. i think becky is secretly in love with my husband. lol
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Why would a young sister marry an old brother?
by JH ini recall a ms brother about 62 years old dating and marrying a sister about 30 years younger.
i respect their choice and if they are in love, well good for them.
but i don't think it's to the best interest of the younger one...... do jw's accept bigger age differences in marriage than other religions?.
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Missanna
man, there is no better sex than with an experienced man. thats another reason to go for the older guys. (sigh)
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Why would a young sister marry an old brother?
by JH ini recall a ms brother about 62 years old dating and marrying a sister about 30 years younger.
i respect their choice and if they are in love, well good for them.
but i don't think it's to the best interest of the younger one...... do jw's accept bigger age differences in marriage than other religions?.
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Missanna
well i am 19 and am married to a 30 year old man. I can't imagine being with anyone else. Sometimes you just click better with someone older than someone your own age. i don't think age matters as long as you love one another. the age difference may cause some problems but those problems are small if you really love and care about that person.
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Adventures in Meditating......
by freedomloverr ini know a lot of you do meditation and i thought i would share a recent experience with you all.
it's been almost 2 years since i left the mental bondage of the org.
and it's been a journey with lots of twists and turns.
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Missanna
i've been told a lot recently that i should try really meditating and looking in to different types of meditating. where do I start? is it really as calming and good for you as they say?
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Very scarry encounter
by ex-nj-jw ini just had an encounter with a man at the bank and i'm still shaking:.
i pull up to the bank to use the atm ( atm in small lobby), i park next to a large truck and next to the truck was another car.
there was 1 man using the atm, and no one in line or outside.
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Missanna
God, what a jerk! sorry that you had to deal with an ass like that. does he have nothing better to do than yell at women at banks. he must be a miserable man.
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What sort of a witness were you?
by brinjen ini'm talking door to door service work here.
were you the kind who would insist on getting a conversation at ever door?
or where you (like me) the kind who would take a "not interested" as an excuse to get the hell out of the householders face?
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Missanna
i was the over zealous type. wanting to "help" all the people out there that were doomed. lol i was so stupid. I thought i had all the answers. I wanted to have a bible study with everyone. I was so convinced that i could help the people that i talked to when i was wrong the whole time. Elders even took me on their bible studies because i was so enthusiastic. the perfect little christian girl. it was sad. lol