spaz....I was there just a bit ago and didn't see you there.....where did you go?
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JWD- Some of the Best Supportive Discussion I've Seen
by flipper init certainly is a diverse board we have here , isn't it ?
we all come from different backgrounds, walks of life, and had different experiences in growing up as children into adolescence.
so it should suffice to say, that we will all have a variety of takes on various issues that come up on the board.
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I am at a reflective time in my life. My last few threads have indicated this. Don't mean to be repetitive, but.....have to say again, just have to....this board has been a support and information haven to me this past year. Most importantly, a connection to real people that I now know as friends.
It is my intention that it remains a growing living entity of diversity, help, and yes support. I hope that it will be here for others as it has been for me. When you are at the very end....very end....and then go there again....and again.....the support that pulls you out....helps you "back to life" so to speak....is....never something you can thank enough. So I repeat myself out of necessity. Thank you. Sincerely. Simon...thank you.
Just a FYI from me. I like this board just the way it is. Love the diversity, information and shared lives.....love the support and compassion I have found here.
wings
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time to move on....
by wings injust wanted to say how much you here on this board have helped me and a sincere thank you.
i am moving... into a huge, and potentially, wonderful transition in my life.
hard times ahead, but i think the worst is behind me.
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wings
However much you now try to play the sweet innocent, your UNSOLICITED private mail was patronizing, condescending and just plain rude.
Sorry HS, didn't mean to be patronizing, condescending and rude to you. I just had a stupid moment, it was not my intention to upset you.
I am honestly sorry.
wings
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time to move on....
by wings injust wanted to say how much you here on this board have helped me and a sincere thank you.
i am moving... into a huge, and potentially, wonderful transition in my life.
hard times ahead, but i think the worst is behind me.
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wings
On past occassions I have received PM's attacking HS too, not from Wings specifically, but from others who wish to carry out their own insulting attacks out of the public eye.
Cog....I actually didn't want to continue the "abusive debate" on cognac's thread. I thought about it first...decided I just wanted to say my response to HS. I made a mistake. OK? I am not afraid of public debate, just was responding to a post from him directed at me. That's all.
Why? Why? is it such a problem for a "nice" person to stand up for themselves? Why are we all the sudden fake for doing so? I don't get it. Why are condescending remarks okay for some and not for others.?
Why does anyone need to grow up? I'm pretty grown up I assure you...don't see any children here. Just people with differences of opinion expressing themselves, and maybe some just looking out for a friend.
I'm genuinely sorry if Wings has had some difficult and even traumatic times lately. So have many people on this board. That does not make her any less a responsible adult accountable for her words and actions, whether they were posted publicly or privately.
This thread is NOT where this debate needs to be. I started it in a PM to another adult....unless you are privy to that I suggest you act like an adult and mind your own business.
Once more, please stop. If you want to chew me up....start your own thread.
wings (still in the twillight zone)
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time to move on....
by wings injust wanted to say how much you here on this board have helped me and a sincere thank you.
i am moving... into a huge, and potentially, wonderful transition in my life.
hard times ahead, but i think the worst is behind me.
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wings
funny to me that I started this....with HS I mean, then I dragged my friends into it....
I sent a PM in response to a post on another thread that I didn't want to fire up again. My bad, honest. Should have known better. Thought HS could just stick with PM's, but seemed a need to pop on this thread and attack me, as he thought I was attacking him and wanted to make my bad public.
So he did.
Twilight zone stuff. When you respond to someone in the same "tone" they responded to you and you are suddenly attacking them. Whatever...I am done. Stick a fork in me....done.
This has become stupid and hurtful, and I am sorry that I have had any part of it, much less started it.
The reason I posted this topic is because I am thankful for JWD. I am coming to an ending....headed for a beginning. Just trying to share and be a part of you. Let you know how much this place has meant to me, just in case anyone cared.
I ask nicely to please not tear up anyone else on this thread....please just let it die.
wings
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time to move on....
by wings injust wanted to say how much you here on this board have helped me and a sincere thank you.
i am moving... into a huge, and potentially, wonderful transition in my life.
hard times ahead, but i think the worst is behind me.
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I am just puzzled as to why you should send me an insulting email, then announce to the Board that you were leaving.
HS...the two were not associated....sorry for the misunderstanding. My email wasn't anymore insulting than most of your posts. I will refrain from any personal correspondence with you, as you like to keep everything impersonal on this board. My bad, thought you might be a real person in there somewhere.
wings (learning as I go...)
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time to move on....
by wings injust wanted to say how much you here on this board have helped me and a sincere thank you.
i am moving... into a huge, and potentially, wonderful transition in my life.
hard times ahead, but i think the worst is behind me.
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Sorry HS....didn't mean to get to you. Seems you can dish it out but can't take it.
You are a special phenomenon....I'll try to treat you more gently in the future.
wings
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time to move on....
by wings injust wanted to say how much you here on this board have helped me and a sincere thank you.
i am moving... into a huge, and potentially, wonderful transition in my life.
hard times ahead, but i think the worst is behind me.
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Just wanted to say how much you here on this board have helped me and a sincere thank you. I am moving... into a huge, and potentially, wonderful transition in my life. Hard times ahead, but I think the worst is behind me. Time to reconcile the past, and set a new course for the future. My support this last year, my help, my place to vent, place to distract myself with laughter, other's pain, tears, and even frustration at times has been here. I have been isolated socially, and you helped me reconnect to the world again. I have made friends, and know the potential is there to make more. Real friends. I love the diversity of this board, it is a community to me. I won't be posting much for a bit...will check PM's daily. Just know I am doing good, and I will miss you while I am gone. Oh, btw, my therapist helped too. wings
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songs that help you cry....
by wings inno matter how much you want to avoid it...crying is necessary sometimes.
for me, i need help with it....too many distractions in my life.
i almost have to plan crying....so for me music aides in releasing emotion, helps me just be me for an interval of time.
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just want you to know again how much I appreciate all your contributions to this thread.
I am packing, crying, and getting on with my life. I am listening to these songs while I do....
wings(love you guys!)
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wings
I am thinking about my brother today....he lost both his sons 6 years ago.
They both had MD, died in his arms, one week apart....age 16 and 17....he is sad today.
wings