It is an unnatural system that makes no sense, yet a JW cannot see the hypocrisy of it.
For example, on finding out that I was going to be d/f my cousin suggested we go out for a meal for the last time before the announcement. Surely if the decision is made that I am an evil apostate, there is no reason why it should be acceptable to talk to me prior to the official announcement but not afterwards.
I couldn't agree with you more jwfacts.
I know a fading JW, well she could very get the ax by the elders for apostate activity, and her parents know about all of this, yet they told her to walk away quietly since they couldn't talk with her if she ever gets DFed.
It makes no sense to me that they are willing to talk to her even right now then.
R.F.