I think you are being a bit hard, other churches may allow their kids to run around, hey you can be member of any other org and smoke, I've seen parents outside the church steps down the road blowing smoke in their kids direction not ever giving a damn. Oh yes the children of churchs and other orgs, never swear, never smoke, always behave and treat people with dignity, and of course they dress like angles, not off of them mind you, and not all JW children are goodies either but the goodies by far out way the naughties. The people in the org are not perfect and don't say they are, they are strick with their children in discipline, and besides they don't run around the hall, if they do they are told not to for the saftey of others, older ones have been hurt and knocked down by kids that get carried away, the congo is not a play ground. Children in the org, go on barbeques, the movies, other JW kids places, they are not bored or deprived play or even sport.
I do not agree with the handling of abuse cases the headies tried to hide and I think it is reprehensible the way they have treated abused victims. but I know things have changed and hopefully they will continue to deal fairly and honestly with members of their congo in a loving and human way, the way Jesus treated his flock. Some don't, but not all do.
The org needs to get back to the basic principle that is of love, instead we find a lack of genuine love among many of the members, and the elders, hopefully things will improve. For my part I just try to show love, and am slowly backing of. But I cant and wont put down the majority just because of a few ar*sholes.