Watching my dad beat my mom. He eventually stabbed her with a butcher knife when I was 10 and she was pregnant.
Being beat and kicked by my dad.
Being almost run over (with a friend) when I was 15 by my dad as we sat on the front steps.
Giving birth to my third child, he wasn't breathing and the doctor said "This would be a good time to pray."
Finding out my child was born with a chromosome defect and was expected to die at any time.
My brother died when the brakes failed on a company truck and it went off the side of a mountain in Utah. I got the call at work and had to go home and tell my kids and my mom who had just driven to Ohio the day before from Utah.
My brother's son was 12 and I had to take him in to see his dead father.
When my disabled child was 22 I got a call that he had been rushed to the hospital and was going to die, I was working in Salt Lake City and managed to get on a plane within about 25 minutes. He died in my arms.
About a month later I got a call from my daughter saying "Mom, I need to go to rehab, I'm addicted to heroin and I've been smoking crack." I was working in California and she was in Ohio.
A couple of weeks later she called to tell me her best friend had hung herself.
A month later, hearing the judge tell my 24 year old son that he was sentenced to 5 years in prison for a fight at a party. He had thrown 1 punch only, verified by a doctor, that caused severe damage to the other guy's eye socket.
These last 4 things happened within a couple of months time less than 2 years ago.
But I always had the truth. Right.