I agree with Mad Sweeney...most elders are exhausted. In most cases, they have to work to support their families, jump through the standard JW hoops of meeting attendance, field service, personal study and then add to that:
1) Prepare meeting parts
2) Handle congregation duties
3) Endless elder meetings
4) Calls day and night from needy congregants
5) JC proceedings
6) Sheparding calls
7) CO beatdowns
8) Etc.
I am exhausted just writing it down...why anyone would view this as a privelege to "reach out for" is beyond me. I guess the perception of power is a powerful "drug" to those needing that type of "fix".