Hi psacramento
I always read and value your posts. I haven't read the post or the thread where the offensive remarks happened, but want to encourage you to move on with your life and if this bad experience gives you the impetus to go then it is a good thing. I haven't been on my computer for a couple of days and I have managed to get so many things done. If you find, when you leave that your life becomes how you want it to be then it is a good thing you are moving on and all the best to you.
take care of yourself
ql