Funny you should bring up the subject of leading a double life. I see it not only in JW adults, but in their kids too. I have JW kids over my house all the time, some of them Elder’s kids and let me tell you, many of them are quite different when they are out of sight of the parents.
Some may think of this as spying (it is) but one of the things I do is monitor where my kids go on the Internet. My kids go to some stupid sites, but not porn sites, not on my computer anyway. Although I must say one kid has a fascination with Britney Spears. However, I’m sorry to say the Elders kids are a different story; porn sites are the fist place they seem to go.
I did not rat them out, as I don’t feel it’s my place to, I also know all about raging hormones, and after all I was no angel at their age, Come to think of it, I even had a subscription to playboy when I was their age. Then again maybe I should tell their parents. I am very torn on this issue, any opinions?
One thing I did do is let my kids know that I KNOW and because of that they told me “boy dad that ain’t nothing, you should know about some of the other stuff they did”; and then went into a litany of things a few of them did. Wow I realized right then and there just how much of a double life some of these kids lead. I also realized how worthwhile it has been to ensure my kids could come to their mom or me and talk about anything, because they really do.
If there is one saving grace about these kids leading double lives, I think it is that they will likely drop the shackles of the Watchtower as soon as they are out of the house. What do you think?
Freeman