But your trouble may also come from your wife if she seeks a divorce, as she will get most of your share anyway.
If you think there is no way for reconcilation and you see (this above) as the future....
I can only say that the stress of fighting it will probably cost you your health as well.
Sometimes it's better just to take your lumps and walk away a free man.
You can always build another empire.
Besides, the market is about to collapse anyway. Latest word out of UK is that powers that be are going to let the market crash in USA. A crash now would mean they can start a recovery plan. To keep cutting fed int. rate would drag out the inevitable for only another year or two.
Life and sanity (and health) are where my priorities would be.