am convinced unconditional love is a fallacy.
In romantic love, it is a fallacy! You love your kids unconditionally, even when they do things that disappoint/hurt/damage you. It is not the same with romantic love and to think so is kind of naive in my opinion. How I love a man and how I love my children are completely different things. My kids could do anything and it will never change how I feel. Not one iota.
Not to say that romantic love can't be deep, life lasting and even spiritual. Just saying that it isn't this, I love you no matter what you do to me, kind of love. That's a fairytale I wouldn't want to be part of personally. I love myself enough to say, these are my conditions, if you can meet them, fabulous, if you cant', bye bye.
Money has nothing to do with it. If you want a woman to love, adore and worship the ground you walk on, treat her like gold, it's that friggin simple and you will get more back than you give. Most women want the man that lights up when she walks in a room, actually LISTENS to her and acts based on her feelings too, not his alone. Do that, and no "rich man" on earth can steal your thunder.
A true woman knows the value of a great man and it has nothing to do with his bank account.
An intelligent, thoughtful, caring man is much more attractive than a rich or poor man. Period.