never had a falling out.......great man.......rock solid in the truth........i always knew where i stood with him......i love my dad......oompa
Posts by oompa
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15MEN - when did you finally understand/ forgive your Dad?
by hamsterbait inmost men will agree that in the teens they all fall out with and disagree with their father.. when did you start to understand where he was coming from?.
i remember a poem, where the writer describes how he always thought his dad was mean and intransigent.
he is lighting the boiler in the morning, and starts remembering how all through his childhood, the house was heated when he got up, and like his own father he cleans everybodys shoes before they get up on sunday.. i think it is only when you go through a similar crisis to the father, or finally have rebelling sons that true understanding kicks in.. i was vile to my father whilst he was dying of cancer.
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oompa
lol.....now that is a classic cameo.......oompa
as a lad i blew up many a glass bottle packed with black powder and i became very handy with saltpeter recipies........
oh and surgical gloves filled to very large size with propane.......yum
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so i have really decided to lay off religion with my hardcore jw wife...
by oompa indamm it is awful.....and it is awful what i have put her through the past two years......so many tears, screams, walkouts, and even two brutal slaps on the chops...(all by her to me btw....although i have shed plenty of tears too).....just awful.......i so wish i could have just shut tf up.....but that is me.....vocal.....real.......open......we have been apart for awhile.......and i think that helped us both......i think she will now respect my non-jw life.....even though she will not be around my non jw friends ...give and take....and i will let her tread water in her cult.
otwo helped me so much...and others too with the one in one out thingy.........it is tough.....thanks wings, and bonzzo and olin moyles and redred rose........and jk.........and otwo......and [email protected] rodney.i will dance with you anytime!!
)...and newlite and hubby robert7 and......flip...and ya...my first nemisis.......outlaw!!
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oompa
I feel this has been the most supportive thread i have ever seen on jwd. THANK YOU ALL!!!......purps, i went with gingerale for the sugar....whenevr i have quit....i always want icecream every night......i heard that was to replace the sugar in the former booze.......
i spoke with newlite...robert7's wife today......she mentioned the money angle too and asked me what i spent on booze everyday.....whith booze it is 5 to 7 bucks....but if wine it more like $20 and i don't (oops make that didn't) drink very expensive wine......so newlite says to get a jar and put whatever i would have spent on booze each day into the jar!!!......you can really see your progress and i bet i average 9-11 bucks a day......i had never really thought about it, but damm that is a lot of money in 100 days......
i have always paid close attention to the posts about drinking.......recently a guy from england had a wonderful post about his one year of sobriety and how much better his entire life is.....i want that...........oomps XXXOOO
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so i have really decided to lay off religion with my hardcore jw wife...
by oompa indamm it is awful.....and it is awful what i have put her through the past two years......so many tears, screams, walkouts, and even two brutal slaps on the chops...(all by her to me btw....although i have shed plenty of tears too).....just awful.......i so wish i could have just shut tf up.....but that is me.....vocal.....real.......open......we have been apart for awhile.......and i think that helped us both......i think she will now respect my non-jw life.....even though she will not be around my non jw friends ...give and take....and i will let her tread water in her cult.
otwo helped me so much...and others too with the one in one out thingy.........it is tough.....thanks wings, and bonzzo and olin moyles and redred rose........and jk.........and otwo......and [email protected] rodney.i will dance with you anytime!!
)...and newlite and hubby robert7 and......flip...and ya...my first nemisis.......outlaw!!
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oompa
thanks all.....and btw.....all beer, wine, booze out of the house....if it is here i will drink it....next few days will be interesting....oompa
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so i have really decided to lay off religion with my hardcore jw wife...
by oompa indamm it is awful.....and it is awful what i have put her through the past two years......so many tears, screams, walkouts, and even two brutal slaps on the chops...(all by her to me btw....although i have shed plenty of tears too).....just awful.......i so wish i could have just shut tf up.....but that is me.....vocal.....real.......open......we have been apart for awhile.......and i think that helped us both......i think she will now respect my non-jw life.....even though she will not be around my non jw friends ...give and take....and i will let her tread water in her cult.
otwo helped me so much...and others too with the one in one out thingy.........it is tough.....thanks wings, and bonzzo and olin moyles and redred rose........and jk.........and otwo......and [email protected] rodney.i will dance with you anytime!!
)...and newlite and hubby robert7 and......flip...and ya...my first nemisis.......outlaw!!
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oompa
thanks outlaw....but i am on big full glass of zin number five......and am so wired......life without gin is not fun.......i have spent two entire nights without sleep when i laid off..........full of racing thought/anxiety.....right now.....i so wish i had gone to the abc store...i will not sleep all nite prob......but i am really trying to quit...doc said i should taper off a bit...........oomps
any judgemental types out there can pile on again.......(notice i did not say judgemental bastards)...........
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so i have really decided to lay off religion with my hardcore jw wife...
by oompa indamm it is awful.....and it is awful what i have put her through the past two years......so many tears, screams, walkouts, and even two brutal slaps on the chops...(all by her to me btw....although i have shed plenty of tears too).....just awful.......i so wish i could have just shut tf up.....but that is me.....vocal.....real.......open......we have been apart for awhile.......and i think that helped us both......i think she will now respect my non-jw life.....even though she will not be around my non jw friends ...give and take....and i will let her tread water in her cult.
otwo helped me so much...and others too with the one in one out thingy.........it is tough.....thanks wings, and bonzzo and olin moyles and redred rose........and jk.........and otwo......and [email protected] rodney.i will dance with you anytime!!
)...and newlite and hubby robert7 and......flip...and ya...my first nemisis.......outlaw!!
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so i have really decided to lay off religion with my hardcore jw wife...
by oompa indamm it is awful.....and it is awful what i have put her through the past two years......so many tears, screams, walkouts, and even two brutal slaps on the chops...(all by her to me btw....although i have shed plenty of tears too).....just awful.......i so wish i could have just shut tf up.....but that is me.....vocal.....real.......open......we have been apart for awhile.......and i think that helped us both......i think she will now respect my non-jw life.....even though she will not be around my non jw friends ...give and take....and i will let her tread water in her cult.
otwo helped me so much...and others too with the one in one out thingy.........it is tough.....thanks wings, and bonzzo and olin moyles and redred rose........and jk.........and otwo......and [email protected] rodney.i will dance with you anytime!!
)...and newlite and hubby robert7 and......flip...and ya...my first nemisis.......outlaw!!
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damm it is awful.....and it is awful what i have put her through the past two years......so many tears, screams, walkouts, and even two brutal slaps on the chops...(all by her to me btw....although i have shed plenty of tears too).....just awful.......i so wish i could have just shut tf up.....but that is me.....vocal.....real.......open......we have been apart for awhile.......and i think that helped us both......i think she will now respect my non-jw life.....even though she will not be around my non jw friends ...give and take....and i will let her tread water in her cult.
otwo helped me so much...and others too with the one in one out thingy.........it is tough.....thanks wings, and bonzzo and olin moyles and redred rose........and jk.........and otwo......and [email protected] rodney.i will dance with you anytime!!)...and newlite and hubby robert7 and......flip...and ya...my first nemisis.......OUTLAW!!!........and any other i may have slighted..........
now if i can just kick this nightly booze thing......really worried i cannot.....this past two years has really taken a toll on me....and sorry guys.....my method of coping was to just go into the bottle....i so want to break this horrible trap i am in with it........i cant seem to sleep without it.....i saw a post from an England bro recently ........dry for a year........i did that once for 11 months 4 years ago......i really think that if i can get off the bottle......i may not obsess so much about our changed/altered/fraudulent bible.........damm that messed me up....htf can we actually CHANGE THE BIBLE TO MAKE IT SAY WHAT WE WANT IT TOO!!!!!...........but i am a raised in fourth generation dub........and that does make things a bit complicated.......it was my entire life............if you dont know.....you prob never will..........................................oompa
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HERE'S A BOMBSHELL ABOUT THE 144,000 DOCTRINE......
by Mary injust when you think you've heard it all............in my research for my project, i was doing some digging around on the subject of the 144,000 and came across something in the wts's literature that absolutely stunned me and, being the generous soul that i am , wanted to pass it on to you to get your thoughts on this.. .
we all know that the society teaches that the 144,000 mentioned in revelation is speaking of "spiritual israel" and not 'fleshly israel' or even other christians in general right?
there are countless quotes throughout the literature that we are all familiar with that specifically state this, but to drive home a point, here are a few:.
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oompa
how the fluck did i miss this mary?.......blackouts suck.....i may have even posted but did not read every page....i am really trying to get better.........oomps.....and thanks fti
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Do you tend to be a 'keeper' or a 'leaker' ?
by Gregor inof small confidences you have been brought in on.
do (did) you find it irresistable to pass on small tidbits when you have been asked to "keep it to yourself"?.
as in -- "don't say any thing, but...".
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oompa
leadlips.......and thand for those who did the same for me.........oompa
really......thanks.....
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I'm so excited . . .
by Lucky Calamity ini get to miss work on monday to attend my orientation at unc - chapel hill.
it keeps getting more and more real .
i may even be able to take home a new laptop!
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oompa
OMG....i used to live 40 min away from hanging rock.....and know it like the back of my hand.......go to looking glass falls on your own if i am not there....but now i am only an hour away!!!........hope to see you there..........oomps.......
are you staying in a state cabin or camping?...........
you will go right by my house on the way there!!!!