well not heard of this one....and not wanting to bashcrash or such...but i was recently diagnosed as having a form of post traumatic stress disorder!..........we just keep reliving and reliving this crap...and trying to figure a way out of it..and volia ...we are driving ourselves nuts............oompa
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21Dissociative Identity Disorder and Therapy
by writerpen injust wondering if anyone has experience with this or knows an x-jw who has been diagnosed.
after years of trying to un-do everything through countless therapies, it appears this has been the problem all along.
i sit with my new psychologist, an expert in dissociative disorders, and she has all the jw lingo down, which tells me she's treated other x-jw's.
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Oh I had a dear friend call me today GUESS WHO?
by mouthy inoompa!!!!!!
hey girls who is looking for a man!!!?.
give him a call!!!
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omg gracie it was sooooo great talking with you!.....if only i had been a few years after you..see i have always liked older women!....this new droid phone with google is just insane nuts!....with facebook other things it does things i dont even know its doing and i got gracies phone number...it just showed up!!!....and it is scary the things this phone does really...i feel like james bond.........and no loubelle...you are not safe in SA....i can travel antyime anywere....just one of lifes kind perks to ME!...........oompa
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single life and oompa steppin out....
by oompa inmy cool dfd son and i are now soooo frikkin close....god i love him to death....he is 24 and really finding his groove and i never shunned him a sec since he was dfd at 17 anyway...but omg the bond we are now having....and he is so glad i am out on my own and being true to myself.
he invited me to a big party a couple of weeks ago....posted about it with cool pics on facebook....a delayed wedding reception for a couple and a going away as well since they are moving of continent....she used to work for me and what a club i found at the party....she is dfd...husband...all friends...my son....even a coulple of old biz partners of mine were there from a crazy lil biz we started once..........in all there were over 30 former dubs at this kickass rocking beautiful party!!!!!.
and there were even 4 dubs there....real slacker...nonjudgemental friends........ahhhhhhh it was a small club and a great time.
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leavingwt..........it truly, truly is...at least we have each other even if soooooo much of our history of life is gone....just treating us like we are dead...friends and family......it makes me feel so good about my own self to know that even as a dub i never shunned him nor any other dub who was dfd....i am so non judgmental that i could never be appointed an elder even though they tried......oompa
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I had a REALLY big first in my life today!!!.....
by oompa inbeen kinda bummed for a few...and a newer nondub friend said i should go to church with him and his wife today...he called me last night about it....so it was not far and i knew nothing about it...but my friend and i are a lot alike....so showed up...it rocked!!
!...everybody had jeans on including the preacher with his shirt untucked...he was lively and funny and real....there were some skits that screamed district convention to me but they were way funnier and better acted....and even though i totally tuned out to most of the sermon part and all the jesus stuff.........the band freakin rocked!...the music was incredible!....just great talent....i told my buddy we should go tell the preacher that not only did he get a newbie in the door...but that it was someone who had never been to church in his entire life!!!.
i went just for social reasons........and there are prob great babe opportunities there....lol.....but it was a good morning and we went to lunch.....it was a great day!!
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been kinda bummed for a few...and a newer nondub friend said i should go to church with him and his wife today...he called me last night about it....so it was not far and i knew nothing about it...but my friend and i are a lot alike....so showed up...IT ROCKED!!!...everybody had jeans on including the preacher with his shirt untucked...he was lively and funny and real....there were some skits that screamed district convention to me but they were way funnier and better acted....and even though i totally tuned out to most of the sermon part and all the jesus stuff.........the band freakin rocked!...the music was incredible!....just great talent....i told my buddy we should go tell the preacher that not only did he get a newbie in the door...but that it was someone who had never been to church in his entire life!!!
i went just for social reasons........and there are prob great babe opportunities there....lol.....but it was a good morning and we went to lunch.....it was a great day!!!......and i will prob go again.....oompa
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single life and oompa steppin out....
by oompa inmy cool dfd son and i are now soooo frikkin close....god i love him to death....he is 24 and really finding his groove and i never shunned him a sec since he was dfd at 17 anyway...but omg the bond we are now having....and he is so glad i am out on my own and being true to myself.
he invited me to a big party a couple of weeks ago....posted about it with cool pics on facebook....a delayed wedding reception for a couple and a going away as well since they are moving of continent....she used to work for me and what a club i found at the party....she is dfd...husband...all friends...my son....even a coulple of old biz partners of mine were there from a crazy lil biz we started once..........in all there were over 30 former dubs at this kickass rocking beautiful party!!!!!.
and there were even 4 dubs there....real slacker...nonjudgemental friends........ahhhhhhh it was a small club and a great time.
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lmao...no the carts are a quarter now!...still chained!...and there were no bags or boxes at all!..and i could not even find a damm basket...i took four cartons of pudding out of the box and used that!!............and ya we all pump our own gas in nc....i think only nc and nj have mandatory pumpers for you....btw...i have always liked grocery shopping...just never done much at aldis....but i do like the prices and the oddity of the place..........oompa
man there are so many chick opportunities at wally world and grocery stores....i am just not a bar kind of pick up the chick guy........
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single life and oompa steppin out....
by oompa inmy cool dfd son and i are now soooo frikkin close....god i love him to death....he is 24 and really finding his groove and i never shunned him a sec since he was dfd at 17 anyway...but omg the bond we are now having....and he is so glad i am out on my own and being true to myself.
he invited me to a big party a couple of weeks ago....posted about it with cool pics on facebook....a delayed wedding reception for a couple and a going away as well since they are moving of continent....she used to work for me and what a club i found at the party....she is dfd...husband...all friends...my son....even a coulple of old biz partners of mine were there from a crazy lil biz we started once..........in all there were over 30 former dubs at this kickass rocking beautiful party!!!!!.
and there were even 4 dubs there....real slacker...nonjudgemental friends........ahhhhhhh it was a small club and a great time.
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my cool dfd son and i are now soooo frikkin close....god i love him to death....he is 24 and really finding his groove and i never shunned him a sec since he was dfd at 17 anyway...but omg the bond we are now having....and he is so glad i am out on my own and being true to myself
he invited me to a big party a couple of weeks ago....posted about it with cool pics on facebook....a delayed wedding reception for a couple and a going away as well since they are moving of continent....she used to work for me and what a club i found at the party....she is dfd...husband...all friends...my son....even a coulple of old biz partners of mine were there from a crazy lil biz we started once..........in all there were over 30 former dubs at this kickass rocking beautiful party!!!!!
and there were even 4 dubs there....real slacker...nonjudgemental friends........ahhhhhhh it was a small club and a great time
so its been a few weeks since i left my wife....it is really hard seeing her suffer...i hate it...but hope she will be happier in the long run....life in general is really weird right now....for sure have NOT found my groove yet....do you have any idea how much shit you need when you move out??...and did you know that aldis grocery store does not even have bags to put your groceries in???...weird...i mean i knew costco does not....but a grocery store?....lol...and i am gettin damm good a laundry.....not doing much ironing...just hate it!!!.........and OMG food seems to last forever!...geeze i must really not eat a lot..............oompa
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What do you think happens when you die?
by brainwashed-from-birth inwe were taught you are just unconscience in a grave "hell".
no burning fires or wonderful heaven where all our dreams come true.
i never feel like i am going to heaven.
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adventure!.............oompa
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replacement pets and relationships....is there a rule?...
by oompa ini love how on seinfeld the always had funny "rules" for everything....esp sex, dating, relationships...... i had a friend tell me the other day she always thought it stupid that people say not to run out and get another pet if one you love dies...that it makes you feel better and can save a rescued animal and give it a loving home....so why wait?.
radio psyche dr laura says wait two years after a big relationship before starting another which i think is way too long...but i get her drift and no i am not a fan of hers but drive a lot and do catch here sometimes.
then another friend told me that the best way to get over a girl/guy is to get under one!....lol...........so i guess everybody is really different and has their take on this..............oompa.
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white dove...i am posting now because i did two days ago to you...but it is not there....thank you for asking/caring about me....right now...life is harder than it was then.....but thank you
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replacement pets and relationships....is there a rule?...
by oompa ini love how on seinfeld the always had funny "rules" for everything....esp sex, dating, relationships...... i had a friend tell me the other day she always thought it stupid that people say not to run out and get another pet if one you love dies...that it makes you feel better and can save a rescued animal and give it a loving home....so why wait?.
radio psyche dr laura says wait two years after a big relationship before starting another which i think is way too long...but i get her drift and no i am not a fan of hers but drive a lot and do catch here sometimes.
then another friend told me that the best way to get over a girl/guy is to get under one!....lol...........so i guess everybody is really different and has their take on this..............oompa.
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ROFLMAO....really!..........at six of nine..........no FREAKIN WAY!!.......i am a damm open book and you know it.........oompa....not a playah
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replacement pets and relationships....is there a rule?...
by oompa ini love how on seinfeld the always had funny "rules" for everything....esp sex, dating, relationships...... i had a friend tell me the other day she always thought it stupid that people say not to run out and get another pet if one you love dies...that it makes you feel better and can save a rescued animal and give it a loving home....so why wait?.
radio psyche dr laura says wait two years after a big relationship before starting another which i think is way too long...but i get her drift and no i am not a fan of hers but drive a lot and do catch here sometimes.
then another friend told me that the best way to get over a girl/guy is to get under one!....lol...........so i guess everybody is really different and has their take on this..............oompa.
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k palm...you have a pm......hit me up please.........oomps