Renaii:Your children are witnesses and they will just think you are being vindictive if you refuse but this all hinges on whether your wife truly has grounds for divorce in god's eyes
Look at this carefully and weigh the consequences.
Either have your children think you are vindictive, but still have the choice to talk to you, or get df'ed by writing a confession of a df'able offense and make it so they are forbidden to speak with you.
If your ex tried hard to get you df'ed before and did not succeed, what makes you think that she will not push for it again, this time with proof?
JWs like nice squared off corners and no loose threads. She wants to be free to remarry a JW. Being able to say that her 'ex' is DF and a bad guy makes her te JW equivalent of a virgin.
You left the org, you are free of their 'rules'
Angie