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  Saturday, June 14, Dallas, TX

  by cruzanheart in

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  well, it's not exactly on the date but the first opportunity thereafter!.

  it's been a hell of a ride.

  we were both regular pioneers when we met and we weathered the storms of getting married (both sets of parents did their best to keep it from happening), chris leaving the borg, me staying in for another 15 years and two kids, his family disowning him, my father's suicide .

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  Name the place. Would love to share stories.
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  again with the inlaws...assembly around the corner

  by 4mylove in

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  2. beliefs

  phone rings.

  i can tell it's my mil by the way he is talking to her.

  he says that he has to look at the dates.

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  So the hubby and I are having a great evening at home. Phone rings. I can tell it's my MIL by the way he is talking to her. He says that he has to look at the dates. He explains that he will be out of town that week. (thank God!). He's going on a fishing trip up north.

  They are calling because they are needing somewhere to stay, and because they would like him to join them. Evening ruined.

  We were about to sit down to watch a great geeky show, I left him on the phone in the living room and started a bath.

  He came in after a few minutes and asked very cautiously what was the matter. I reminded him how scary those phone calls are to me. Then the arguing began.

  I brought up the fact that I don't like the fact that he has a brother that doesn't know if he's dead or alive. I hate the fact that when I first met your sister, she wouldn't even look at me, yet was already sleeping with her boyfriend and had to get married before us. I hated that the family doesn't seek out yet another brother because he is not practicing either.

  I brought up the kid issue and that fact that I will not become pregnant in that lifestyle. He asked why, I proceeded with the list:

  1. College. He responded that that isn't the belief. Sheeeeesh.

  2. I will baptise or not babtise OUR child as WE please.

  3. My child will not be shunned or learn to shun ANYBODY!

  4. Couldn't bring up molestation, hurts too much

  He rebutted that I had such a warped sense about things. That no one would tell him how to run his family. To which i replied....they already are.

  For those that don't know, my hubby has been inactive about 6 years now. But as I've stated before my worst fear is that he may go back. My mother insists that she sees that he loves me and would never put anything before me, yet i live in fear.

  Thanks again to all for listening.

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  How to make love & marriage work w/a JW

  by StillinLove in

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  2. relationships

  please dont comment saying to "run" or "get out while i can" thank you im not new to this, so i can handel it.

  i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we started dating in high school and now i am going to college and he is working.

  i am 20 and he is 21, i was raised catholic but my mom and i are too open minded for the church so we left.

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  I wish you all the luck, you will need it. May will be my 3rd year anniversary to my inactive JW hubby. Even though he is inactive, the indoctrination runs deep for years. Tread very lightly, you will have to. I'm very open minded, which is probably what got me in this situation in the first place. My husband is worth the struggle, but, I would never want a family member to go through the fear of losing their loved one on a daily basis.

  PLEASE sit down, talk it out, and ask him to be blatently honest as to what your relationship would truly be after marriage.

  DO NOT BECOME YET ANOTHER SLAVE TO THIS CULT!!!!!

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  "You knew didn't you?"

  by Dagney in

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  (hehehehehehe).

  my jwbf called today.

  i had called her yesterday because i was dying to know what she thought about the news, but she wasn't in.. she had lots to tell me today about what's going on in the hall, they are going to bring the po down.

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  Jk, I love your post!!!! Well said!!!

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  If it was really about the gas...

  by carla in

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  if it was really about the gas prices they would get rid of fs.

  for most people at least in the us and probably most other westernized countries the trip to the local kh is not all that far.

  fs is a different story!

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  4mylove

  Mother in law told my hubby that the changes were due to the gas....

  I just smiled and said, "please let some of this be sinking in"
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  The reason for the change, my opinion.

  by joebin in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i think the decision was made because elders were starting to really feel the pinch and maybe many were considering giving their resignation due to the heavy workload involved.

  with the new arrangement, not only do they have one less meeting to get ready for a week but also less preparation for the remaining ones.

  i don't think the org can afford to lose too many elders.

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  Mother in law told my hubby that it was announced that they would be combining 3 meetings into two due to rising gas prices.

  Yeah, gas prices....sheez...

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  Why Jehovah Witnesses teach a more biblical faith

  by tralon in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  surprizeingly, i am not a jw but an observer and in partial agreement with the jehovah witnesses on many issues.

  i have been to many churches in my 30 years and have studied many church beliefs, church history and the bible as well.

  so why do i believe the jehovah witnesses are the one true faith of jehovah god?.

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  4mylove

  I have yet to meet a JW that lives his faith "holy" in the faith. They judge harshly, drink immensly, lie, cheat, steal, etc etc. They are as much hypocrites as any in other religions. We are human and bound to er.
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  FLUFF - Favorite colognes

  by JK666 in

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  2. friends

  my favorites are armani, bijan, and minotaure by paloma picasso.. what are yours?

  or perfumes for women.. jk.

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  4mylove

  I like Very Sexy for Him by victoria's secret, Kenneth cole for men, perry ellis 360 for men,

  For me, Kenneth Cole Black (wore it on my wedding day because it smells of gardenias mmmmmmm)

  Body by Victoria, Burberry Weekend.

  So many others but those are the top for me. Anything that just smells clean or gardenia's

  My mother still wears the famous little brown stuff, Youth Dew by Estee Lauder.

  Fendi!!!!!
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  sick of being labeled by idiots!! No that is not a label it is a fact!

  by 4mylove in

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  my friend was having guy problems, so she calls me because i have "experience".

  this is how she makes me feel when she calls to vent.

  that because i dated like a normal person i have better insight.

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  No, she pretty much knows that it's not going to happen. She will be 30 this year and feels she's being left behind. The problem is that she is not attracted to the usual "brother". She likes the long hair edgy guy.

  I hate that she hasn't found anyone because she is an amazing person.

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  sick of being labeled by idiots!! No that is not a label it is a fact!

  by 4mylove in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my friend was having guy problems, so she calls me because i have "experience".

  this is how she makes me feel when she calls to vent.

  that because i dated like a normal person i have better insight.

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  4mylove

  BTTT