I think I have but it's been hard. Being raised in that thought process and then leaving sets you up for being in a reality you are not equipped for. Have made some dumb choices on people I've let into my life. When you are in the borg it is hard to have your own boundries because they have always been set for you. I've done many things that are so cool that I could not have done inside the borg. For many years I still believed it was the "truth" which is more toxic than poison. Still...I'd rather be "here" than "there".
I am eternally grateful for the people that post on this site...from all over the world no less. How great is that?!?!