Thanks for all the advice.
I have NO intention of writeing a letter to the Elders.
1st off even if they did write me a letter saying they would take no action i would not belive it for one second...There could be "New lite" and things would change in a heart beat.
If i did it would show they have some power over me and they don't!!!
I'm getting on with my life and she can get on with hers and if she wants to be JW.....thats her problem not mine.
karter.