I never did, until I decided to leave. Yes, I watched the plates and glasses go by about 25 times.
My husband missed one Memorial in the 25 years he was associated. It may have been the one after he was disfellowshipped - I can't remember. He was DF'd in '85 and reinstated a couple years later, so he attended one memorial in his DF'd state, poor zealot....
Oh, he's not a zealot now. He's much better
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