Changling.........3 years ago I attended the viewing of my best friend. He was not a jw but his wife was. Our children had been married to each other AFTER we had developed our friendship. I was not df'd or anything at that time nor am I now.
I noticed a sister, my mother had "brought " her into the truth in the late 60's, sitting with another sister. Now, granted, I knew that she was a good friend of my ex's, and I also knew that my ex had probably told her all the gory details of our life. However, I felt compelled to walk over to her and greet her. I put out my hand to her and said " Hello, so-and so, how are you? "
Her response to me was to cross her arms in front of her and pull them to her chest. I simply replied, " My aren't we cordial in our older age".
There are snappy replies to their insolense, you just have to be prepared to deliver them, as did Dawg. I applaud you dawg. carry on friends.
NMG