Total mind control......Example. My older son. Active jw, 34, married, one son , now 6. I was df'd in 2001. My grand son was born not long after. Even though my son only lived 6 house down the street from me, he WOULD NOT!!!! allow me to see my grandson.
He came by one day for something, I think I had made an issue about this. Anyways, he's standing on my porch and he tells me this......" Dad, there has to be PUNISHMENT". He broke my heart even more than he'd done prior on this matter. I responded to him, " I think that you mean DISCIPLINE, don't you?" He ran off of my porch much to fast......straight for home, 6 houses down the street.
Eventually, he warmed up, i think he put some thoughts to what he said, he does have a heart, I know, I created him, didn't I??
Since my re-instatement he has warmed back up and we are TRYING..................
NMG
Thank you Lady Lee