kind of, this kind of applies i guess. I was engaged to a girl when I was in my early 20's, and she called off the engagement because I was not "spiritual" enough. And mind you, I was a pioneer, being used like crazy by the brothers in my hall. The elders in my hall took long to appoint people, and she had a huge problem with the fact that I was not an MS. I explained this to her, and it fell on deaf ears. Most of it was influence from her parents. She was pretty bitchy in general, so when she called it off I was relieved, I wanted to break up but I didnt want to hurt her, because when it comes to women I am a certified punk ass bitch. So when she called it off, I walked out of her house and started smiling, which really made me realize how disfunctional the relationship was and pressure to get married from others is what got me in that situation to begin with. She was really crazy, after we broke up I had a bunch of money saved, and so I always wanted to do DJ Battles, so I went out and dropped a grand on DJ equipment. On the way out of the store with the equipment I ran into her friend, I said hi, and went on my way. A couple days later I had to call my ex cause she failed to take care of canceling the reception hall, and she was pissed at me cause her friend told her she saw me with the eqipment. I just laughed, what an F'd up bitch. She was crazy. The whole break up was a blessing because we would not have lasted a year, I would have ended up leaving her cause she was impossible to deal with. Also, being with her showed me exactly what I did not want in a wife, this helped me find my soul mate. Thats another funny story, I had this friend for years in the congregation, and there were times we dated off and on, but I didnt think of her seriously at that point because she was not "spiritual" enough. When I decided I did not care about that, we dated and ended up getting married a couple years later, and its like story book marrige. Glad I didnt marry the first girl, that would have been bad.
