From what I know, his job has been keeping him very busy. I think he'll be down to see his mom tomorrow.
FreudianSlip
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AllTimeJeff?
by poopsiecakes inhas anyone heard from jeff lately?
i hope he's ok and that his mum is ok too, it's been a while since i've seen him post....
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Help please - my wife wants a divorce
by IMHO ini've read some old posts and they don't really fit my situation.. my wife just told me she wants a divorce and that's it after nearly 20 years., she doesn't want to try to work on it.. other posts talk about friends and family.
i have no family and no friends (due to a lot of traveling).. i went back to my hometown a year ago (after many years away) and even then old friends treated me as a stranger, like they've moved on.. i've had a lot of emotional / mental problems, basically a breakdown so have found it impossible to fulfill my role as a husband for many years, emotionally and physically and she said she's had enough, although she's never talked about it before.. she went out and had an unplanned one-night-stand.
i forgive me but she says she doesn't love me anymore.. we both find it very difficult to communicate our feelings.
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FreudianSlip
IMHO, do you leave the house? I'm just wondering if you possibly suffer from agoraphobia.
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Help please - my wife wants a divorce
by IMHO ini've read some old posts and they don't really fit my situation.. my wife just told me she wants a divorce and that's it after nearly 20 years., she doesn't want to try to work on it.. other posts talk about friends and family.
i have no family and no friends (due to a lot of traveling).. i went back to my hometown a year ago (after many years away) and even then old friends treated me as a stranger, like they've moved on.. i've had a lot of emotional / mental problems, basically a breakdown so have found it impossible to fulfill my role as a husband for many years, emotionally and physically and she said she's had enough, although she's never talked about it before.. she went out and had an unplanned one-night-stand.
i forgive me but she says she doesn't love me anymore.. we both find it very difficult to communicate our feelings.
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FreudianSlip
I know the thought of being without her feels like your heart is being ripped out. I promise you, you'll get through it like so many others before you. Right now you need to work on building friendships and outside relationships so that your entire focus is not on that person (I understand because that's how my life has been for far too long).
Others might recommend marital counselling, but in my humble opinion, that's just prolonging the inevitable. If you love her, you'll let her go and be happy. It might take that much for her to realize that she loves you. Or, you might realize that you can be happy on your own. Don't drag out a failed relationship (again.. speaking from experience).
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The 5% club
by John Doe init's a well established fact that 95% of people are either bs'ers or are incapable of distinguishing between bs and non bs.
are you a 5 percenter?.
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FreudianSlip
I'm a ninetyfivepercenter.
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Once a cheater, always a cheater
by Quillsky inif you discover, while getting to know a potential partner, that they have cheated on a previous partner........ don't touch them.
run run run.. in my opinion a cheat remains a cheat.
opportunity is the variable.. please discuss..
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FreudianSlip
I’ve been cheated on and I’ve also been the “other woman”. Cheaters cheat because of opportunity, desire, boredom etc etc. Would a cheater cheat again if given the opportunity? Possibly, but I don’t think there’s any hard and fast rule.
Ditto to all of the above. I do think a person can only cheat once, but I also think that most people cheat. We aren't naturally monogamous creatures.
FYI: I've never physically cheated on anyone, but I suppose I have emotionally.
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Please accept my apology for being an elder and participating in Judicial Committees
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FreudianSlip
Unless you were one of the elders that df'ed me, you don't need to apologize.
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Study: Marijuana may not impair driving ability
by Elsewhere ini agree that more studies are needed to nail this down for sure, but this study is quite impressive.. "the effects of alcohol on driver-controlled behavior in a driving simulator, phase i," dot-hs-806-414.
marijuana may not impair driving ability at all.
by steve elliott in news wednesday, mar.
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FreudianSlip
I didn't read the article, but I'm sure even if it said the opposite it wouldn't make a bit of difference.
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In most relationships the woman is better looking than the man
by Quillsky inthis leaves ugly women as the most unlikely to find partners.. please discuss..
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FreudianSlip
I wouldn't want to date a guy that was better looking than me..
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How many excommunicated Catholics do you personally know?
by poppers ini grew up catholic and i never knew any; still don't.
and i can't think of any catholic i know who personally knows any.
compare this to how many disfellowshipped jws you personally know..
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FreudianSlip
Poppers-
Early 70s.
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How did you survive?
by highdose ini've been asking myself recently, how did i survive growing up in a cult that activly works to destory your condifence, soul and personality.. i think it was only because deep down somewhere i knew it was wrong.
how about you?.
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FreudianSlip
I don't feel like my soul, confidence or personality were being destroyed.. (?)